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On a Mission
05.27.05 (4:56 pm)   [edit]
I'm doing something that some people are going to give me some flack on. I've left an email and vm for "T" using a different approach. I told him that I needed to speak to him about some medical issues concerning him. I would be at a local Starbucks this evening for an hour or I would be at his house tomorrow morning (with someone but I didn't mention that). If neither time was convenient, that he should let me know.

The medical issues are to advise him that I've had the first round of STD tests and they have come back clean but I still have to go through a 2nd round in 3 months. And he needs to be responsible for the bill.

And then I want an explanation as to what the hell made him do what he did and made him think it'd be okay.

I know that what he says really doesn't matter - I'd like to get a sincere apology but I wouldn't believe it. I want to see the expression on his face. (And I will have my pepper spray with me.) I need this for closure. I'm not going to be a bitch and I won't be a basket case. I'm quite calm and resolved. I'm on a mission.

I will update later. Wish me luck.

**** Not surprising, he didn't show up. I admit I drove by his place - there were two cars in his driveway. Neither were his. He called about 10:50 - didn't leave a msg. I didn't answer because I was slightly inebriated. No email from him. I just want this done!
 


posted by: Frenchie (reply)
post date: 05.27.05 (2:45 pm)

good luck!



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post date: 05.27.05 (4:19 pm)

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posted by: trekguy (reply)
post date: 05.27.05 (4:26 pm)

I'm with ya pal! Good plan IMHO!!



posted by: SweetDiva (reply)
post date: 05.27.05 (6:12 pm)

when a diva is on a mission I know nothing no1 can say will stop her.

so best of luck
and be careful



posted by: kurtmaddox (reply)
post date: 05.27.05 (7:42 pm)

all be well, i'm sure :-) good and responsible move, though, and i'm proud of you!!!!!



posted by: NurseNancy (reply)
post date: 05.28.05 (4:30 am)

do you really think he will EVER show? I would be surprised. He knows what he did was wrong and he knows you know.

Ya know?



posted by: dstar (reply)
post date: 05.28.05 (10:09 am)

Just sticking him with the bill? You are way too nice. Now, a truly sinister plan would involve a horibble disease that takes years to show up. You could tell him that YOU have it and that he probably caught it. It shouldn't be a deadly disease, maybe better to give him one that turns his dick into a dried up little twig or something.

Be evil...he deserves it!

Aside from that, I think you are doing a good thing by confronting him about all this. Kind of making him face what he has done. Good job!



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 05.28.05 (11:36 am)

Reply to: NurseNancy
He called me over 30 times this morning - no messages. I wonder if he thinks I'm preggers or have syphilis or something? LOL I'm not trying to be vindictive I just know that sometimes he reacts harshly, so I wanted to give him time to calm down and for me to break my arm (haha)



posted by: onebadjen (reply)
post date: 05.28.05 (4:30 pm)

good call on not answering while less than sober... and let him sweat... play telephone tag awhile. the ball is in your court.



posted by: NurseNancy (reply)
post date: 05.28.05 (4:44 pm)

Reply to: ScubaDiva
he sounds like a dangerous jerk. if you are not gonna press charges, I say leave him be. And go get your arm looked at. Don't risk further damage to your arm. Swollen tissue can damage the nerves, blood vessels etc. don't mess with it.



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 05.30.05 (4:19 am)

Reply to: XAirborneRTO
I work with what I got. Had 'more developments' last night with the situation.



posted by: tinkerbitch (reply)
post date: 05.30.05 (5:23 am)

Wow that's a scarey situation. I guess anyone could be put in it at any given time. I wish u the best of luck.



posted by: verucassalty (reply)
post date: 06.02.05 (11:25 am)

jesus! what did i miss??

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