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| Creepy Date |
| 05.15.05 (6:16 am) [edit] |
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First meeting date last night. I suggested someplace not too noisy so we could hear each other speak. His recommendation: Starbucks. (Not a good sign from the get-go) It was painful - and not in a good way. He's from Cyprus. I thought "mmmm. exotic." I was wrong. No chemistry in person. Zilch. Nada. He didn't quite feel the same way - kept going on and on about how gorgeous my hair was, my eyes are the deepest shade of green with golden flecks, blah blah blah. He kept trying to touch me. Apparently, he wasn't getting the "I'm closed off to you" body language. I told him that I had plans to meet friends and needed to get going after an hour of talking and (not surprisingly) finding that we have absolutely NOTHING in common except we both live in Atlanta, breathe air and have computers. I was thinking "Why again did I agree to meet this guy???" He was telling me how much he was looking forward to getting together again - I said we'd have to see how our schedules matched up. Meanwhile, he's trying to run his hands through my hair. I'm dodging his hands. Then I get to my car - purse (with pepper spray inside) in one hand, key (to stab him if necessary) in the other hand. I went thru a hug where he kept trying to kiss me and I kept turning to dodge them - I was backed against my car so my escapes were limited and I didn't want to knee the guy in the middle of a (surprisingly crowded) Starbucks parking lot. I made three U-turns on the way home just to make sure he wasn't following me. Someone pesky like that creeps me out. Reminds me of being on a date at 13. I was supposed to meet up with another 'friend' but I could still smell Mr. Cyprus on me, so I went home and took a shower and went to bed. |
posted by: trekguy (reply)
post date: 05.15.05 (5:48 am)
Great defense pal. Guy sounds creepy for sure!
posted by: Roxgirl (reply)
post date: 05.15.05 (7:46 am)
Eek. Some guys just can't take a hint!
Can't everybody read Body Language?
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 05.15.05 (8:26 am)
Reply to: Roxgirl
Thinking back, I shouldn't have even been vague about us getting together for a second date - I said 'we'd have to see how our schedules match up'. I should have been more blunt.
And I'm going to put out a bounty on the chick that suggested I meet him.
posted by: SweetDiva (reply)
post date: 05.15.05 (8:40 pm)
*sigh*
better luck next time...
posted by: onebadjen (reply)
post date: 05.15.05 (9:18 pm)
i usually have a subbie buddy of mine call me a bit into my dates as a get out due to an emergency pass. gotta love those creepy ones that you have to shower after to kill the breathing the same air cooties.
posted by: NurseNancy (reply)
post date: 05.16.05 (1:38 am)
Oh My. I'm so glad I'm outta the dating racetrack, for sure. I need to be able to let my daughters know about the creeps out there, though. Glad you ditched him, hopefully you didn't let on where you live, or your real name......
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 05.16.05 (3:53 am)
Reply to: NurseNancy
Maybe you should send them to me for "Dating Boot Camp".
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 05.16.05 (3:54 am)
Reply to: SweetDiva
It's all good. Makes me appreciate the non-creepies all the more.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 05.16.05 (3:54 am)
Reply to: onebadjen
I thought of that and usually have someone make a call but I figured I could handle an hour...
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 05.17.05 (5:29 am)
Reply to: Godsmack
Fortunately, I haven't heard back from him. Maybe he *did* get the hint afterall.
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