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| Curiosity and the Pussycat |
| 05.10.05 (4:37 pm) [edit] |
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If you've been a regular reader, you're aware of the travails, humiliation and heartbreak I suffered with "Ned". And the fact he still reads my more personal blog and that his live-in 19yr old gf also reads and feels compelled to comment on it. Well, "Ned" calls from time to time to shoot the shit. (Shoot the poop sounds too stupid). I always wonder what the purpose of his calls are. I haven't seen him since September. I never call him - I'm courteous on the calls but cut them short at about 30 mins. (He tends to go on and on.) I just don't see what we have to talk about - whenever he calls, we talk about the same stuff - work, family, weather. The conversations are pretty much carbon-copy. Now, "Ned" is a genuinely nice guy. If he wasn't, I wouldn't have dated him. (briefly as it was) I'm friends with just about every guy I've dated (latent-developing psychos excluded). But "Ned" is pretty much in a class by himself. Why is this relevant? "Ned" just called me and asked if I'd like to meet him for dinner tonight. I feel odd about it. I'm over him - I know it in my bones - and I'm curious to test it out. So I said yes. He offered to pick me up, but I said no - going to keep it on neutral territory. I'm assuming he's still with his gf - doesn't really matter to me one way or another - fortunately, "Ned" did us both a favor by dumping me. Why am I going? I guess it's a matter of curiosity... |
posted by: NurseNancy (reply)
post date: 05.10.05 (1:43 pm)
well we know what curiosity did to the cat!
posted by: SweetDiva (reply)
post date: 05.10.05 (1:54 pm)
^^ I agree with NurseNancy.
This is one situation....I would have to say don't go.
The only time I gave a flyin flock about my ex's is when I still wanted to be withthem. Once over them...I don't care to go out with them not even as "friends". My ex THINKS that I'm seeing someone so he favorite thing is let go out as friends get a movie or something to eat. I always say no. I don't care to see him, I KNOW tht I'm over him and there's nothing left, I can be civil with him, but see him for what? When he calls I'll talk to him for a bit. (if I don't reconize the # first)
Well....Diva to Diva....be careful. Chain lock that heart of yours down.
posted by: deviant1 (reply)
post date: 05.10.05 (2:48 pm)
30 minutes is a short call? Obviously, I will never understand the female psyche :)
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 05.10.05 (4:34 pm)
Reply to: deviant1
Actually, I'm the one cutting the call short - in the past they have been 2+ hours. Seriously.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 05.10.05 (4:36 pm)
Reply to: NurseNancy
I'm already back. It was interesting. Definitely confirmed I have no feelings for him anymore. (Plus he has put on a serious beer-belly) He's a sweet, gentle, intelligent and funny guy - I'll always think that of him but the past is the past with him.
I didn't ask about his gf and he didn't bring it up. The conversation was light. End of story.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 05.10.05 (4:38 pm)
Reply to: SweetDiva
Read my reply to Nurse Nancy. It was no problem. It was a good thing. I would NEVER be tempted to go back - regardless if I suddenly realized I had feelings for him still (and I don't). Too many fundamental differences between us.
He is a good person - I just don't see the point of staying in touch other than my bubbly personality and oozing sex appeal (That's a joke)
posted by: SweetDiva (reply)
post date: 05.10.05 (6:55 pm)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
LoL
good no feelings...and no cats getting skinned *wink wink*
posted by: SweetDiva (reply)
post date: 05.10.05 (7:17 pm)
Damn did you jinx me or what??
why the hell did my ex just call?
when will he get it that I DON'T want him??? I'm so over it.
posted by: NurseNancy (reply)
post date: 05.11.05 (1:58 am)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
wow, you know men who will talk for 30 min.let alone 2 hrs? I'm impressed!!
posted by: NurseNancy (reply)
post date: 05.11.05 (1:59 am)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
so, it's "Fin" as in done, not the shark.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 05.11.05 (3:30 pm)
Reply to: NurseNancy
Yep. I have to say that his dumping of me led to some of the most significant personal growth in my life. I forgot to thank him for that - LOL
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 05.11.05 (3:30 pm)
Reply to: SweetDiva
Must be the moon or something.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 05.11.05 (3:31 pm)
Reply to: NurseNancy
The dude would go on for hours and hours. It was interesting conversation but my ear got sore and I had a crick in my neck.
posted by: SweetDiva (reply)
post date: 05.11.05 (8:24 pm)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
Must be a full moon for real....
posted by: NurseNancy (reply)
post date: 05.12.05 (1:52 am)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
still, a man who can converse....wow!!
posted by: NurseNancy (reply)
post date: 05.12.05 (1:54 am)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
I told my girlfriend to write to her Ex husband and thank him for leaving her because now she has has better life than she could have ever imagined! She did, and it nearly drove him crazy! It was wonderful!
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 05.12.05 (2:36 am)
Reply to: NurseNancy
I guess I'm growing up - I felt rather slighted that he would dump me for a 19yr old girl who he moved in less than a month after my dumping. He described her as having a lot of 'issues'. It drove me nuts for a while - that he would choose a 19yr old over someone more experienced and stable...
Just shows me even more so how he wasn't the one for me.
posted by: NurseNancy (reply)
post date: 05.12.05 (1:01 pm)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
maybe that's why he will talk to you for so long. Some men like to have live-ins who don't have much to say, but will talk away with their girl "friends"
posted by: verucassalty (reply)
post date: 05.14.05 (6:49 am)
oh dear.
hold on to your head.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 05.14.05 (11:39 am)
Reply to: verucassalty
It was no big deal - I didn't lose my head at all. I was surprised that I didn't feel even the slightest twinge considering how I went thru the wringer with him.
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