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| The Mom and The Fridge |
| 05.04.05 (8:06 am) [edit] |
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The mother and I had tenatively spoken about working in my garden today. But after the argument we had (see posting a few days ago) I told her to forget it because she would not agree on guidelines, etc. Typical her - she has just showed up. Unannounced. I am SO not in the mood to deal with her. She's ringing the door bell like crazy and hollering "Yooo Hooo!" Last night, I got dressed for dinner. Sat down for a few minutes because I was tired. Couldn't get back up. Just didn't have the energy. So I didn't see him. Someone shoot me now. Or at least pour me a REALLY big shot of tequila. Make it a jug of the stuff. UPDATE: She used the key and comes walking in (after 30 minutes of ringing the bell). I told her to leave - that this was a perfect example of our entire argument about her not respecting my boundaries. She said I had her "scared to death". (Bullshit - I told her that I was not expecting her.) She *could* have called - but I would have told her again that she was not welcome today - so she didn't call. She said that "we are wasting time when we could be working". I reminded her that our conversation ended with me telling her to 'forget it' because she wouldn't agree to ground rules. (Whenever she has come over before, there's been an agreed-upon time, etc). She hung up Monday and that was it. As usual, she completely disregarded everything I said on the phone. She really means well but the woman does not hear anything contrary to her own agenda. Martyr exit stage left. |
posted by: trekguy (reply)
post date: 05.04.05 (5:17 am)
Sorry to hear about the dinner date that never happened! Damn thought you might have gotten a fridge at least.
Well, I'd continue to pretend you were not home, maybe Mom will leave.
posted by: gambit3131 (reply)
post date: 05.04.05 (5:31 am)
You last two paragraphs sound just like DD.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 05.04.05 (5:32 am)
Reply to: trekguy
She's still here - ringing the doorbell for 20+ minutes. I"m really tempted to go downstairs and tell her I have "company".
The expression on her face would be priceless.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 05.04.05 (5:32 am)
Reply to: gambit3131
Maybe she and I have the same mother?
posted by: trekguy (reply)
post date: 05.04.05 (5:49 am)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
If you do, make sure your dressed in only a partly open robe, with hair disheveled!
posted by: gambit3131 (reply)
post date: 05.04.05 (6:04 am)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
Oh god no. Did your mother put a restraining order on you after she (the mother) threw a computer at your head?
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 05.04.05 (6:06 am)
Reply to: gambit3131
Fortunately, she doesn't have access to my blog. Or the internet. Then again she's about as technologically impaired as one can get.
posted by: linda (reply)
post date: 05.04.05 (8:00 am)
She totally does not respect you....
posted by: almsthvn (reply)
post date: 05.04.05 (12:01 pm)
*shiver. scary to see someone so compLETELY clueless.
She reminds me of my ex mil. She is the reason i simply cannot watch "Everybody Loves Raymond." The Mom is just too creepy.
posted by: onebadjen (reply)
post date: 05.05.05 (5:09 am)
so what's your mother's day plans? what to send your mom and mine out together to someplace nice... say outer mongolia?
posted by: Rand (reply)
post date: 05.06.05 (1:25 pm)
Just remember she is your mom... love her and try to be patient.. not all of us have that benefit to say Hi Mom.. how are you... I know they can be trying at times.. but.. she brought you in this world and she really loves you.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 05.06.05 (3:47 pm)
Reply to: Rand
I know she loves me. My mantra is constantly "She means well." But it's affecting my health - a lot. When you have to be medicated to deal with her...
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