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| Mauling & Tonsil Hockey |
| 04.27.05 (6:40 am) [edit] |
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This is a first. I think. At least the first in a long time in regards to a date... The dude didn't do anything blaringly idiotic. Not once. I was vascillating about what to wear because it was rather cool and breezy. Would black jeans be too casual? Would a skirt/heels be too dressy for a mid-week date? I opted to go with the black jeans, a nubby v-neck silk sweater, and my tan denim jacket. (FYI- Airborne, I wore the same ensemble I wore when you blew thru town). He showed up at 5:30 on the dot. Opened the car door for me. Went to a nice restaurant. Conversation was good. Talked about a lot of stuff including politics where we pretty much agreed on everything. Then we went to get some gelato. (Again opening every door for me along the way). Drove me home. Came inside for a few minutes where we had some iced green tea. He didn't make a move. About 9, he said he had to get going. Walked him to the door. He made a joke about 'the awkward Annie Hall moment" and gave me a peck while accidentally stepping on my toes. Then he asked if he could call me about going to a movie or something this weekend. I said sure. I don't feel sparks, not crazy about his beard and he is 12 years older than me, but I enjoy spending time with him. He makes me laugh, he's polite and intelligent. It's also a record for me - I don't recall a 2nd date where the guy hasn't at least tried to maul me and play tonsil hockey. *Not that this girl doesn't mind an occasional mauling and game of tonsil hockey, it was definitely a change of pace. The End. |
posted by: trekguy (reply)
post date: 04.27.05 (4:01 am)
Hey older guys are good guys too!! Sounds like a great time even if there are no future dates. A nice eveing out on the town is better than sitting at home. Way to go!
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.27.05 (4:15 am)
Reply to: trekguy
Yeah yeah yeah. Older men need love too...
posted by: onebadjen (reply)
post date: 04.27.05 (4:17 am)
maybe its a slow spark? might feel something click better on a 2nd or 3rd date?
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.27.05 (4:23 am)
Reply to: Godsmack
I didn't really get close enough to smell except when he stepped on my toes and I wasn't really sniffing. There was no overpowering odors from him.
He was in khakis, and a golf shirt. Shoes weren't great, but at least they weren't sandals or tennis shoes. The coulda used a buffing.
And his beard coulda used a trim. There was this one wayward hair that I was dying to pluck!
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.27.05 (4:23 am)
Reply to: onebadjen
That was the 2nd date...
How about Mr. Wonderful? Any developmetns?
posted by: jerneedog (reply)
post date: 04.27.05 (4:59 am)
Sounds like you had a good time.
Tonsil hockey is always nice to play.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.27.05 (5:14 am)
Reply to: Godsmack
Right. I can see it now...
"Tim, could you take off your shirt for me. Well, it's not really for me, it's for Diva. And while you're at it, could you drop your drawers too - I want her to see what a great arse you have. No seriously - It's sort of like a gesture for mankind. I mean womankind. We just have to share your butt with the world"
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.27.05 (5:26 am)
Reply to: Godsmack
DON"T YOU DARE USE ME AS YOUR EXCUSE.
USE...ONEBADJEN - hehe
posted by: linda (reply)
post date: 04.27.05 (5:44 am)
Sounds like he likes you and is smart enough to take things slow so he doesnt scare you away. What a nice evening. You go girl!
posted by: FinalyFree (reply)
post date: 04.27.05 (10:05 am)
It was a good date, you had fun, I'd say a victory in the Dating Game :)
Ya know sparks have been known to develop over time!
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.27.05 (4:22 pm)
Reply to: FinalyFree
I usually have fun on my dates even if the dude is a turd. (One of the skills of being an only child is to entertain oneself)
I'm not sure about the sparks. That's how I've ended up in most of my 'relationships' - they are really nice guys but there was no "ooomph!" I need "oomph!" and lots of it.
posted by: FinalyFree (reply)
post date: 04.27.05 (7:24 pm)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
I hear ya. No "oomph" is a downer, and why are they always nice like that?
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.28.05 (2:49 am)
Reply to: XAirborneRTO
I'm stealing this response from Almsthvn:
*rolls eyes*
plus adding my own twist:
::::makes gagging noises::::
posted by: kurtmaddox (reply)
post date: 04.28.05 (7:49 pm)
I'd like to invite you to an evening of Mauling and Tonsil Slapping at your earliest convenience ;-) Doesn't this guy know that you get 1 free aggressive come on for every 4th door opened/seat pulled and another one for every 3 times you say, "That is so interesting! Tell me more about *X*." Deduct one pass if you wait less than 3 minutes before speaking again. Beards lose a pass as well so maybe he knew he started the evening playing catch-up and is not good at math and therefore wasn't sure about the score?
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.28.05 (10:37 pm)
Reply to: kurtmaddox
Oh Kurt! The usual is for guys to try for mauling and tonsil hockey in the first 2 dates. This guy has distinguished himself. If only he were a few years younger and beardless...
As a Southern woman, I *expect* doors to be opened for me. Occasionally, I will make a point (when I'm feeling particularly saucy) of standing outside the door and waiting non-chalantly. It's a nice reminder to them. (ahem)
posted by: kurtmaddox (reply)
post date: 04.29.05 (6:13 am)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
Well, of course, as a country boy from rural Kentucky, I know a bit about "Southern women". I'm a Southern gentleman in every sense of the word and don't mind the extra effort at all as long the Southern woman remains true to the genre herself. You wouldn't believe how many times I've had to have the chrome replaced on the bumper of my pick-up truck ;-)
"If only..." -- does it really matter what comes after any "if only" statement when it comes to relationships. The bottom line is if it ain't there -- you're wasting time, including his. Some nice girl who is not quite the woman you are is looking for him and she could miss him because he's busy opening doors for you instead of meeting her :-)
If you order the chemise, I need a private pic sent to kurtmaddox@hotmail.com! lol!
When I'm feeling particularly "saucy", I always wear a loin cloth -- what else would be appropriate?
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.29.05 (9:57 am)
Reply to: kurtmaddox
The chemise, although cute, only comes in black (which I don't wear unless I'm wearing black clothes) or pink (which I'd rather be shot in than wear). So, I won't be ordering it unless they make it in some other colors.
I am ALWAYS a Southern woman. If I could wear a hoop skirt and get into my car, I would. LOL
PS You have mail.
posted by: kurtmaddox (reply)
post date: 04.29.05 (8:58 pm)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
kurt likes mail ;-)
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