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Sex Question
04.22.05 (12:41 pm)   [edit]
I was having a discussion with another Tblogger (who will remain anonymous unless that party wishes to identify themselves) about sex. (If you can't do it, you can at least discuss it inteligently, right? LOL)

Anyhoo - I say that most women will agree that they'd choose NO sex over BAD sex and the exact opposite for men.

What about you - would you take bad sex over no sex?
(And we're leaving the description of 'bad sex' up to you)
 


posted by: adpierin11 (reply)
post date: 04.22.05 (9:55 am)

hmmm.... i think i would rather have bad sex, at least I would be getting a little something



posted by: Roxgirl (reply)
post date: 04.22.05 (9:56 am)

For the record, I'm a woman...

I agree with the other females! ... otherwise, why waste my precious time?



posted by: nullfactor (reply)
post date: 04.22.05 (10:15 am)

Speaking as a man who loves his sex... I'd MUCH rather have none than bad sex. I think "good" sex involves pleasing your partner... if you're partner isn't into it, why waste the time?



posted by: SweetDiva (reply)
post date: 04.22.05 (10:27 am)

No sex......I can "handle" myself and get a "Oooo"
....rather than having bad sex and walk away pissed off.



posted by: gambit3131 (reply)
post date: 04.22.05 (10:55 am)

I'd probably choose no sex over bad sex. But it also depends on who it would be with.



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.22.05 (11:52 am)

Reply to: gambit3131
How do you, as a guy, define "bad sex"? Someone that just lays there? Is unresponsive? Doesn't give you feedback? Isn't in touch with her body?



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.22.05 (11:53 am)

Reply to: adpierin11
My point exactly. Hehe



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.22.05 (11:53 am)

Reply to: Roxgirl
sort of along the lines of "I put on sexy lingerie and shaved my legs - for this?"



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.22.05 (11:54 am)

Reply to: nullfactor
Apparently there are those that think any boinking is better than no boinking.

I wonder how many of those have truly had a good boink to compare it with?



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.22.05 (11:55 am)

Reply to: SweetDiva
I'm with you completely...



posted by: gambit3131 (reply)
post date: 04.22.05 (12:02 pm)

Reply to: ScubaDiva

From "my" experience, the young women think it is the guys job to do everything and know everything. The older women know what they want and they take it/do it/ or whatever. To me, bad sex is both partners not interacting and therefore the connection isn't made, it's just mechanical. The same can be done with a hand or vibrater.



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.22.05 (12:18 pm)

Reply to: gambit3131
And just how much "experience" have you had?



posted by: gambit3131 (reply)
post date: 04.22.05 (12:21 pm)

Reply to: ScubaDiva


I dunno



posted by: lynne (reply)
post date: 04.22.05 (12:51 pm)

Oh man. I would so choose the no sex over bad sex. I mean...at least with no sex, I would have time to get myself off and still be able to watch a movie in my underpants.



posted by: onebadjen (reply)
post date: 04.22.05 (3:13 pm)

if i am involved, the sex is usually great ;)



posted by: baileydog (reply)
post date: 04.22.05 (5:07 pm)

(m) since i've not had any in oh, far too long i'd take bad sex. in fact if anyone out there is bad at sex and wants to "practice" i'm willing to help coach you along.



posted by: SweetDiva (reply)
post date: 04.22.05 (5:45 pm)

Reply to: baileydog
lol



posted by: almsthvn (reply)
post date: 04.22.05 (6:45 pm)

no sex over bad sex



posted by: FinalyFree (reply)
post date: 04.22.05 (7:14 pm)

Definitely no sex.



posted by: Jos1221 (reply)
post date: 04.22.05 (8:17 pm)

NO SEX! I mean, what's the point????



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.23.05 (4:12 am)

Reply to: onebadjen
There are those exceptions - even with you. There is only SO much you can do. Even if you are in Domme mode.



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.23.05 (4:13 am)

Reply to: gambit3131
Come on - spill the beans!



posted by: onebadjen (reply)
post date: 04.23.05 (4:47 am)

Reply to: ScubaDiva
well when it gets to that point, its at least good for a laugh. there was that time i made that one guy cry though. i felt a little bad about that.



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.23.05 (7:35 am)

Reply to: onebadjen
(Laughing hysterically) When it comes to you, that doesn't surprise me in the least. I'm just surprised it's only ONE!



posted by: irishred (reply)
post date: 04.23.05 (7:36 am)

I would take no sex (and i know you dont believe that!)



posted by: Schonheit (reply)
post date: 04.23.05 (7:39 am)

If it's bad for you and good for the partner I say go for it, sex is a 2 way street. Can't always get what you want either.



posted by: Schonheit (reply)
post date: 04.23.05 (7:42 am)

Also with the Wendy's blog, apparently about 2 weeks before the finger incident one of the woman's relatves died in her house.
Coincidence?
And she has had a long history of trying to sue big company's and has been caught every time.



posted by: NurseNancy (reply)
post date: 04.23.05 (12:48 pm)

oh, no sex, please.



posted by: deviant1 (reply)
post date: 04.23.05 (6:20 pm)

sex can be bad?



posted by: onebadjen (reply)
post date: 04.23.05 (7:23 pm)

Reply to: ScubaDiva
well ok more than one. hell i have made kev cry. i am a cold cold bitch. i better beware the karma police.



posted by: broken19 (reply)
post date: 04.24.05 (1:28 am)

give me no sex over bad sex any day and i agree ost men would want bad sex over none



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.24.05 (4:31 am)

Reply to: deviant1
Oh dear god yes.... Not with you, I'm sure. All women who've crossed your loins are probably still reminiscing. (hehe)



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.24.05 (4:32 am)

Reply to: Godsmack
April,
ALL men are trainable. It's just a matter of the trainer's skills and ability to snow the trainee about the training.



posted by: JT (reply)
post date: 04.24.05 (10:16 am)

I've had good and I've had bad, and good is the only reason to get all sweaty and breathless.





posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.25.05 (4:54 am)

Reply to: XAirborneRTO
I beg to differ - I think that you just haven't found the right woman to train your ornery ass.

ALL men are trainable. It's a matter of finding what treats/motivation he needs.



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.25.05 (4:56 am)

Reply to: XAirborneRTO
Oh spare me! You don't want to rehash that visit again, DO YOU?

And if "helping" you out "in that department" consists of calling an escort service, then sure, I'll help. But YOUR credit card.



posted by: linda (reply)
post date: 04.25.05 (5:45 am)

Luckily I have always had good sex. I would choose no to "bad", there are other options...



posted by: kurtmaddox (reply)
post date: 04.25.05 (4:01 pm)

what is this thing you are referring as "bad sex"? i tried looking it up but for some reason my computer doesn't display that page ;-)



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.26.05 (2:52 am)

Reply to: kurtmaddox
What scares me is those that claim they've never had bad sex. It's sort of like, if you've only eaten bland mush your entire life, you don't know it's bad...



posted by: kurtmaddox (reply)
post date: 04.27.05 (11:14 am)

Reply to: ScubaDiva

I have bad sex... it taste like chicken :-)



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.27.05 (3:17 pm)

Reply to: kurtmaddox
One word: Ick!



posted by: kurtmaddox (reply)
post date: 04.28.05 (9:42 am)

Reply to: ScubaDiva

What? You don't like chicken?



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.28.05 (10:48 am)

Reply to: kurtmaddox
I like chicken. I just don't like bad sex. I'd rather 'starve' than have it.

How you be?



posted by: kurtmaddox (reply)
post date: 04.28.05 (1:30 pm)

i don't like spiders and snakes. but that ain't what it takes to love me!

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