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| "Ned" Update |
| 03.19.05 (9:08 am) [edit] |
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Some of you may or may not be aware, but I have a more personal blog. It's the one that the infamous "Ned" came upon and led to our ultimate demise in early October. Intermittently, "Ned" calls to say hi and chat. Often he comments in our conversation on things he's read in that other blog. "Ned" has said that he'd stop reading it if I asked him to (like that would make any difference?) The last 2 conversations have made it abundantly clear to me that it would have not worked between us. Some things that have come to light that I was unaware of that are fundamental differences between us. I'm RELIEVED now that it ended before it got more involved and I learned about it. (It's nothing bad per-se, but I think it's something he should have disclosed to me and would have absolutely been a deal-breaker.) Around the holidays, he mentioned he had a new gf which kinda bothered me. He called again last week. He said that she had been living with him since NOVEMBER. He's 30. She's 20 and a slob (his words), a mess (his words), and has a lot of issues (his words). Then he dropped the bomb... She's been reading the more personal blog too! He said he thought she'd find it interesting. (How would you feel if you were dumped (twice) by a guy you really dug and his current gf is reading about your struggles and stuff?) So this morning, I'm looking at comments on the 'other blog'... And now she's f**king COMMENTING on it. At the end of her comment she said "I hope you don't mind that I'm reading this..." Uh, hell yeah. But if I say anything, I look like the insecure bitter ex. |
posted by: angiekruger (reply)
post date: 03.19.05 (6:44 am)
i'd be pissed
posted by: jennirae269 (reply)
post date: 03.19.05 (6:51 am)
hire a hitman to take them both out
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 03.19.05 (7:32 am)
Reply to: jennirae269
Nah. "Ned" is a great guy. I just don't need it rubbed in my face.
posted by: jennirae269 (reply)
post date: 03.19.05 (7:37 am)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
Ok, it's too bad you can't ask him to back off with out seeming, um, something you're not...rejected or something like that.
posted by: Roxgirl (reply)
post date: 03.19.05 (8:13 am)
That's a tought one...
Lesson learned, don't tell people about your blog who you really DON'T want to read it!!!
I lost a "friend" over one Blog I wrote.. forgot I gave ehr privaledges to read it, and one day it blwe up in my face... Oops!
Good Luck with this!!!
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 03.19.05 (8:23 am)
Reply to: Roxgirl
I didn't tell him about it. He happened on it by accident. Started reading it and it sounded "extremely familiar'...
posted by: trekguy (reply)
post date: 03.19.05 (8:36 am)
I second angie on this one too! I be more than pissed, I'd want to beat the bitch up!!
posted by: onebadjen (reply)
post date: 03.19.05 (8:56 am)
oh HELL NO!!!! and who is insecure if SHE is reading your blog? i think SHE is. that is just wrong on so many levels. that he showed it to her... ok i'll shut up now.
posted by: sexylilyummy (reply)
post date: 03.19.05 (9:09 am)
I would be beyond pissed......
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 03.19.05 (9:22 am)
Reply to: onebadjen
Of course she's insecure - she's 20 years old. At 20, weren't you insecure about just about everything? Imagine knowing your live-in bf was reading about the daily life of a girl he used to date that was 12 years older... He showed it to her.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 03.19.05 (9:23 am)
Reply to: trekguy
Nah. She's a kid. And I would never beat anyone up. I might mess up my manicure.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 03.19.05 (9:25 am)
Reply to: angiekruger
I'm not pissed. I'm irked. Irritated that I've been put in the position. Of course when he told me she was reading it, I couldn't go blog about it on there. And now I can't blog about her commenting on it now either. I'm not going to shut down my site for them. GRRRRRRRRRRR.
posted by: Squirrely (reply)
post date: 03.19.05 (10:40 am)
Tell'em to leave Ned alone He's your's.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 03.19.05 (1:10 pm)
Reply to: Squirrely
I don't want him. She can have him with my blessing.
posted by: FinalyFree (reply)
post date: 03.19.05 (3:12 pm)
That's just wrong.
Frankly I'd be a little insulted if I were the gf. Why would I want to read a blog of one of my guy's ex?
Course she's a kid and probably gets a kick out of it. Sheesh.
posted by: NurseNancy (reply)
post date: 03.19.05 (3:31 pm)
tell her to take a hike!
posted by: lynne (reply)
post date: 03.20.05 (7:40 pm)
I used to have a more personal blog. The *only* person in my real life I told about it was Aaron. Then he told his wife but didnt tell me that he told her or that she was reading it. Nope, he just let me go on exposing my vulnerabilites there. Anyhow, that part of it doesnt bother me so much. I mean, it isnt like I am ashamed of anything I wrote. But the betrayal hurt.
posted by: SweetDiva (reply)
post date: 03.21.05 (5:24 pm)
hmmm....I would just casually mention the things he has told me as of late.....
men! females!!! can't win for loosing.....
posted by: uniquelaughter (reply)
post date: 03.22.05 (2:42 am)
I agree with SweetDiva, i'd do the same thing...
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