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| In a quandry |
| 02.07.05 (1:56 pm) [edit] |
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If you haven't read my earlier musings, I have a cold. No fever but snotty and coughing. Technically, I have a date tomorrow night. Last night I told said bachelor that I was getting over a case of the sniffles (underplaying it a bit). He said he was too and that he didn't mind. His birthday is later this week, so I consider it a priority to spend some time with him. Problem is, it would throw off the rest of my schedule for the week. I have plans with two other bachelors. 1) Do I go ahead with tomorrow's date? 2) Do I reschedule tomorrow's date? 3) Do I bump one of the other guys? (One I bailed on last Friday so I sorta feel obligated but really don't have a burning desire to see. The other one I do have a burning desire to see.) **And for the record, the afore-mentioned burning desire does not require antibiotics or any sort of topical ointments. |
posted by: FinalyFree (reply)
post date: 02.07.05 (11:01 am)
Buring desire always beats obligation! Do you sound all congested and stuffy? Would it be possible to reschedule...again?
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 02.07.05 (11:16 am)
Reply to: FinalyFree
The one I have no burning desire to see is the fireman that is a little too eager to see me - so I'm sure he'd be all sympathetic and happy to see me whenever. I'm just not feeling it and don't want to string him along...
I have no voice and definitely sound like ca-ca.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 02.07.05 (11:19 am)
Reply to: Godsmack
Why doesn't it surprise me that you'd say that? LOL
If only you were here, I'd send you off in my place with the fireman-
posted by: jennirae269 (reply)
post date: 02.07.05 (11:40 am)
How do you keep track of all these guys?
And I agree with FinalyFree, desire over obligation any day!
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 02.07.05 (12:52 pm)
Reply to: jennirae269
Excel spreadsheet.
*and you think I'm kidding, right?
posted by: FinalyFree (reply)
post date: 02.07.05 (12:56 pm)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
I always hated those who were more eager to see me than I them. I particularly hated the really nice ones, it's so much harder to be bitchy to those guys.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 02.07.05 (1:04 pm)
Reply to: FinalyFree
I'm very rarely bitchy to a guy. Even someone as annoying as "Mr. EasyAccess" - it takes a lot to have me start ranting.
Someone that is eager like a puppy - I don't know what it is about it, but it just makes me wary. Not that I want someone that's 'hard to get' but it rings of a certain amount of desperation - ya know?
posted by: NurseNancy (reply)
post date: 02.07.05 (1:09 pm)
take care of those burning desires first!!
posted by: FinalyFree (reply)
post date: 02.07.05 (1:20 pm)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
Oh ya I know. I'd made a date with a guy that did appear to be a bit too desperate to go out with me once. I met my future husband the week before. I knew I wanted the affections of my future husband NOT the other guy but he called and sounded so excited about the date I didn't have the heart to tell him no. I did fess up as we left the restaurant that I had met someone. He was a true gentleman about it all but I felt like crappola.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 02.07.05 (1:31 pm)
Reply to: FinalyFree
I can't say I've met my future husband sort of scenario but I've been in similar situations. And it's nothing against 'nice guys' because I like them. I tend to date them (until they become Jekyll/Hyde LOL) This hasn't happened often, but I dunno... Maybe I'm wrong and he's an amazing guy. I will go into the date with an open mind, but I'd just rather focus on someone else that has caught my attention.
posted by: jennirae269 (reply)
post date: 02.07.05 (1:45 pm)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
Aha! I knew excel was good for something!
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 02.07.05 (1:50 pm)
Reply to: jennirae269
If only I could print it out and bring the notes with me when I'm out with them!
posted by: trekguy (reply)
post date: 02.07.05 (1:53 pm)
I agree with finallyfree. I go with the horny feeling every time, to hell with obligation!! Beside he's just a guy give him a good excuse and he'll swollow it hook line and sinker!!!
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 02.07.05 (1:56 pm)
Reply to: trekguy
For the record,
I never said anything about horniness...
Ladies do not get horny. (ahem)
posted by: FinalyFree (reply)
post date: 02.07.05 (5:26 pm)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
I understand that completely. I didn't really see my husband as 'future husband' kind of thing. It was just one of those things I knew I wanted to explore. I would have been very disappointed if I had never heard from him again.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 02.07.05 (9:11 pm)
Reply to: FinalyFree
I'm glad you found 'him'. The whole marriage/kids/happily-ever-after is not my thing, but if you hadn't heard back from him, you could have always tracked his butt down. No doesn't mean no until a restraining order is issued (kidding!)
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