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Mr, Easy Access Update
01.31.05 (10:36 am)   [edit]
Mr. Easy Access is on a mission. I'm chuckling at his feeble attempts. He called me Sunday at 1am. And again yesterday. And now he's sending me emails saying he wants to 'come visit' me. Told him that I'm not interested in a booty call - that I have plenty of those already and 'have that department covered'. (Thought that would take care of it)

His next email said that he was interested in catching up. Told him that if he wanted to catch up, we could do it over dinner sometime.

His reply was "I could always stop by during my lunch break to say Hi if you like."
To which I replied "This is getting old. You are NOT coming over to my house. IF you sincerely want to catch up, we can do it over lunch or dinner in a public place. Otherwise, you can save yourself the time. It ain't gonna happen."

Then he answered: "Whats getting old? I wasnt asking to Do anything..just to say Hi. You do recall we've met in person before several times dont you?"

I replied "Yes, I recall we went on a date in the fall of 2003 and since then, your intentions have been nothing but getting laid. You are not coming to my home. If your intentions were TRULY to say "Hi", we can do it in a public place."


This guy is hot. Truly could be a model. He has a good job with a good income. Women should be clamoring for him. My only guess is that he is such a terrible lay that he can't keep anyone regular. Otherwise, there are women out there that would overlook his assholeness to have him as 'arm candy'.

Anyone else have any other theories?
 


posted by: trekguy (reply)
post date: 01.31.05 (8:10 am)

From a guys perspective .... he sounds like a loser! Your correct, keep this dingbat at arms length. Let some other poor soul get stuck with him!! Eye Candy is just that Eye candy no difference if it be male or female, they are NOT worth it!! Your way too cool to be stuck with a loser!



posted by: BobbyJoe (reply)
post date: 01.31.05 (8:12 am)

Sounds to me like he's just got a genuinly rotten personality. On average women aren't as willing to put up with bullshit in order to have "armcandy", as you put it, as men are. Women's patience runs thin much quicker with that sort of thing than men's. I would theorize that it's part of the animal "hunter's instinct" with men, but that's just a guess. Maybe we're just more desperate. Regardless, you did the right thing. Some people would have led him on just to be a bitch. At least you were honest.



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 01.31.05 (8:33 am)

Reply to: trekguy
I would never seriously entertain this guy. He amuses me. Picture me like a cat, toying with some injured mouse. Plus, it's good to entertain all of you folks.



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 01.31.05 (8:36 am)

Reply to: BobbyJoe
I'm not leading him on - but he does amuse the hell out of me. He's been doing this on/off since September 2003. You would think he would give up, you know?

He was a really nice guy on our only date. Then he showed his true colors. Such a disappointment.



posted by: nullfactor (reply)
post date: 01.31.05 (8:42 am)

It's cliche, but... there's more to a guy than looks. Sounds like this guy might be quite the piece of work... At any rate, I'm proud of ya. :)



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 01.31.05 (8:47 am)

Reply to: nullfactor
I'm with you. In my much-criticized list of non-negotiables about men I date, attractiveness/appearance was not mentioned other than that they are able to keep up physically with me and are comfortable in their skin.



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 01.31.05 (9:18 am)

Reply to: Godsmack
Come on - rejection to this extent? (Didn't I send you a pic of him in the past? I don't have them anymore -I deleted them...)



posted by: FinalyFree (reply)
post date: 01.31.05 (9:20 am)

You're a challenge, he knows he's handsome and probably able to get plenty of women. However, that's not cutting it with you. It's driving him nuts that he can't 'have' you!



posted by: nullfactor (reply)
post date: 01.31.05 (9:27 am)

Reply to: ScubaDiva
On that note, I'm going to get back into my routine to try to maintain my physical shape. I mean the good old fashioned way. I bought a mountain bike and I am not afraid to use it! LOL... Good for the heart, I hear... :)



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 01.31.05 (9:39 am)

Reply to: FinalyFree
I cannot understand how he can continue with this over such a long period of time. He's bright - but he is so fricking dense when it comes to this. I"m baffled.



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 01.31.05 (9:40 am)

Reply to: nullfactor
I can tell just by your typing, you are looking MUCH buffer. You hot stud you. Now I'd let you come over to say 'Hi" anytime you wanted baby! (kidding)



posted by: NurseNancy (reply)
post date: 01.31.05 (11:32 am)

teenie-weenie?



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 01.31.05 (1:45 pm)

Reply to: NurseNancy
I don't know and I ain't interested in finding out about my theory one way or another...



posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 01.31.05 (4:03 pm)

Not this tool again. LOL



posted by: NurseNancy (reply)
post date: 02.01.05 (1:45 am)

Reply to: ScubaDiva
don't blame ya!!



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 02.01.05 (3:19 am)

Reply to: XAirborneRTO
Ya think? So if I hint that I'd give in to him, he'd go away?



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 02.01.05 (3:20 am)

Reply to: SheSpecies
Makes for great blogging, doesn't it? LOL



posted by: nullfactor (reply)
post date: 02.01.05 (8:17 am)

Reply to: ScubaDiva
What? You're kidding??? You wouldn't let me say "hi"? How about "hello"... or "how are you doing?"... heh heh heh



posted by: verucassalty (reply)
post date: 02.01.05 (11:44 am)

did you know that responding to him "have that department coverered" basicullay fanned the flames of bootie challenge in his eyes...

lol, lots o' luck



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 02.01.05 (1:00 pm)

Reply to: verucassalty
The "I already have that dept covered" was a new technique I threw out there yesterday. I figured if he thought someone else was 'hittin' it', that it might be a turn off for him...

Maybe I should just forward him the link to my blog and let him read the scathing comments? LOL



posted by: onebadjen (reply)
post date: 02.01.05 (4:53 pm)

i have one or two of the ones like him in my whorehopper collection. i am beginning to think they are painsluts incognito or something. they KNOW the answer is always going to be "no" and like you mentioned the booty call dept is covered... yet they still try... seems to come in cycles... i won't hear from them for awhile, and then they crawl up from underneath whatever rock.. or whore that would have them, and try again.



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 02.02.05 (4:54 am)

Reply to: onebadjen
Too bad you're not in town, I could pass you off to him and you could teach him a thing or two.



posted by: jennirae269 (reply)
post date: 02.02.05 (7:43 pm)

Looks aren't everything! But great sex is a priority! He must be a loser in that department!



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 02.02.05 (10:48 pm)

Reply to: jennirae269
Have never been one where looks were a driving factor in my attraction to someone.

He may be visually appealing, but turn off the lights and you're dealing with a person who is very ugly on the inside.



posted by: jennirae269 (reply)
post date: 02.02.05 (11:09 pm)

Reply to: ScubaDiva
People with ugly insides make the worst partners. Internal ugliness is a contagious disease.

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