I'm dealing with a bit of unanticipated drama at the moment. A "tool" that I met for coffee once way back in August. Good conversation and felt some chemistry. Saw him a 2nd time. Red flags started popping up. Did some checking and found a lot of 'inconsistencies' as well as talked to a girl he had seen a while past (gotta love that grapevine!) She pretty much said he's a Jekyll & Hyde and a nutcase. (Things she said rang completely true from my experience). Details of his personal life screamed LOSER! So I met Mr. Tool at a restaurant to tell him that I wasn't feeling the love. As I started to mention some things that seemed inconsistent (and give him the oppty to correct), he saw it coming and advised me he was unable to see someone that did not trust him. (If he needs that for his ego, fine...)
Haven't seen him since. Fast forward to last week. I moved email addresses and sent out a broadcast email to my address book advising them of the change. (Guess who's email was in there? Yep! Mr. Tool)
I got a rather shocking/unexpected email from Mr. Tool on Tuesday. He missed me and he knew I missed him, that we both knew we were destined for each other, blah blah blah. That I was to 'think carefully' and call him that evening.
Well, that evening, I was on a date with the Non-Democrat (yet another fine specimen to hang on the wall of men I choose not to revisit) and did not take his call. He called again when I was driving home. As I was struggling to navigate my way in the Land-Boat (aka Yukon Denali Extended Stretch Beast), I just answered my cell phone.
Of course, it was Mr. Tool. I am nice, ask how he is, sorry he's been sick... He asks if I got his email. I tell him that I did and I was rather surprised and flattered (thought I would throw that in to soften the blow) but we were looking for different things. He gets all pissy and tells me that "when I change my mind and realize that we are destined to be together, to call him and suck his cock - then he'd decide if I was worthy".
As you can imagine, there was a long pause. Then I started laughing. For some reason, he didn't like that and hung up. (Gee, wonder why?)
Fast forward to Friday afternoon. I'm home from my aforementioned facial and see that someone I don't recognize made a comment on my blog saying "Fucken Bitch". I delete it. But I follow the links - this idiot made an entire blog yesterday making such poetic statements as "Well, dick in your ass then you stupid twit" and "Hope he fucks you good and hard up the ass and breaks your fucken legs".
I'm sure his mom is so proud of that mouth! Well, it's Mr. Tool behind the blog. I don't know how he found it, but he did. The logo he set up on the "Tribute" blog is the same on his personal one.
Resourceful me printed out his blog, the matching logos, photos of him, and thanks to Sitemeter, I have his IP address too. Gotta love technology and paper trails! And thanks to a friend at Verizon, I'll have his personal information on Monday morning. One more peep from him in any form and I'm calling a contact at the local police department and filing a complaint for terroristic threats and requesting a restraining order. I had a stalker for 4 years and I will not deal with that shit again.
UPDATE: Thru the grapevine, an acquaintance that is PI offered to stake him out and have her partner "send a message" if he tries anything out. Gotta love that!
Monday: Not a peep from him since Friday... But I'm armed. Go ahead, make my day. GRRRRRRRRR
holy shit!
what a "tool" lmfao.. "suck my dick and i'll decide if your worthy?" are you fucking kidding me??? LMFAO! i would have pissed myself laughing at the loser...
kudos to you for standing your own with the track him down through his blog... quite crafty i must say.. what a stupid twit he must be..
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 10.23.04 (1:35 pm)
Reply to: verucassalty
Thanks to Kraze for actually pointing the link out... From there I was the one that got crafty!
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 10.23.04 (1:36 pm)
Reply to: KRAZEDONE
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR. I switched to Haloscan so I can verify the IP address that I got off sitemeter.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 10.23.04 (2:52 pm)
Reply to: KRAZEDONE
HUH?
posted by: altricial (reply)
post date: 10.24.04 (10:28 am)
Wow! Scary freak that one!! I usually very grateful not to be single.... Thanks for reinforcing that! :o)
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 10.24.04 (11:14 am)
Reply to: altricial
Maybe I should change the name of my blog to "Mixed Nuts"?