I hate drama. I have a male friend - we'll call him "Marvin". Never dated him, he's TOTALLY not my type. We had lunch once and failed to mention he has had a girlfriend for about 8 months. Unknowingly, I was put in the middle of a pseudo-love-triangle. His gf IM'd me and confronted me about it. She was more forgiving of him than I was. He and I talk maybe 1-2x a week since then at most. Her nickname is "Sunshine" (although I think PSYCHO is more fitting)...

Marvin and sunshine had an engagement party over Labor Day weekend. I was invited but opted not to go. I sent a congratulatory card to both of them. Marvin acknowledged it. She did not. I offered her suggestions of where to shop to get 'the perfect outfit'.

Last night, I got the following IM from her - totally unprovoked - outta the blue: i guess you aren't here, but i'm going to make a request.... i'd appreciate if you would not keep talking to my boyfriend... you stated that he would not ever be someone you considered part of your "trusted circle" and you obviously only want to talk to him for what you can gain out of it....he's been nice and not told you to leave him the fuck alone, but i'm saying it now.... leave him alone

I opted to bite my tongue and ignore it. He's a big enough boy to say it to me directly if that was the case. This morning, she IM'd me using his account saying that "He" was behind her last night when she typed the message to me. I replied that I knew it was not Marvin typing the message. And POOF! immediately "marvin" logged off. BUSTED! I cannot believe someone can be so insecure. This guy adores her but clearly she's not playing with a full deck.

I'm skimming over a lot but I'm waiting until tomorrow to talk to him - he needs to know what's going on but I'm exiting stage left afterwards. Too much drama for me.