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Confusion Level Rising
08.04.04 (9:30 am)   [edit]

Had a 2nd date with "M" last night. (He's the Marathon phone conversation guy). I wasn't feeling great - some new med had me feeling blah. He came over and ended up being very attentive and sweet. Had a smooch or two. Was nice but he has a goatee and it was constantly tickling me. (He offered to shave it for me - WHOA!!!!)


Confusion Level Rising. You guys are supposed to be doing stupid shit that makes it really easy to discard you. All of a sudden, you aren't doing that. Now what am I supposed to do???


Supposed to get together for a late lunch with George. (Set up from a friend - invited me to go see Alanis Morissette tomorrow.)

 


posted by: riverrat338 (reply)
post date: 08.04.04 (6:52 am)

scuba: i think you're missing out on a great money making pportunity here. All you do is go on dates and "lunches" with all these guys your friends hook you up with and you meet at various places. you should charge a fee for dating someone. Say if your friend has a guy....she should pay you to go out with him..then you can report back on tblog about him.



posted by: chicalookate (reply)
post date: 08.04.04 (6:54 am)

I say just enjoy it... nothing wrong with that.



posted by: riverrat338 (reply)
post date: 08.04.04 (6:55 am)

by the way...not all guys have a terminal flaw or (hubris). We all have flaws though. It seems like you examine guys like they're a cereal box and the tragic, terminal flaw that will convince you to release him is the "prize at the bottom of the box".

some guys are adult cereals...no prizes...just good wholesome fiber!



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 08.04.04 (6:59 am)

Reply to: riverrat338
Sure...send me into a world of blogging prostitution.

I have (counting) three single female friends here in town. One is a lesbian. One is too focused on her career for men (but I have another theory). And the final one is a sweet girl, but guys just don't see past her appearance...

So I would be benefiting no one and would have to file bankruptcy in no time for that money-making venture.



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 08.04.04 (7:02 am)

Reply to: riverrat338
Wait a second stud. I don't just cast them aside on first evidence of a flaw. "Karl" has redeemed himself. And "M" has backed off on the 'connection/commitment' stuff.

I'm just not used to this...



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 08.04.04 (7:04 am)

Reply to: chicalookate
I'm trying.... but it's not easy.



posted by: riverrat338 (reply)
post date: 08.04.04 (7:06 am)

i know, not first evidence. but at some time. you're looking for it from the get go. you've come to expect it from past experiences. im just saying don't let it dominate the dating process. every report you give has that part where you speculate what "k" or "j" or "m" or "q"'s hang up is



posted by: riverrat338 (reply)
post date: 08.04.04 (7:09 am)

"Confusion Level Rising. You guys are supposed to be doing stupid shit that makes it really easy to discard you. All of a sudden, you aren't doing that"

see! you're expecting it!



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 08.04.04 (7:18 am)

Reply to: riverrat338
Some 18 years of dating has led me to that conclusion. It's happened every time before stud, why would I suddenly expect anything differently?



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 08.04.04 (7:20 am)

Reply to: riverrat338
I call them as I see them. People that hear more of the details of the dates have concurred with each of my judgment calls. I don't normally discard one without confirmation from my Dating Support Team.



posted by: riverrat338 (reply)
post date: 08.04.04 (7:24 am)

man, if i had a DST they'd be starving from lack of work! LOL



posted by: riverrat338 (reply)
post date: 08.04.04 (7:26 am)

Scuba I love ya! don't take anything i said too seriously...cuz admit it....i'm the man for you...see?..j/k again!

seriously though.....you're doing it the right way. :op




posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 08.04.04 (7:31 am)

Reply to: riverrat338
Well, you need to throw yourself back into circulation stud.



posted by: Saint027 (reply)
post date: 08.04.04 (7:43 am)

I agree. We're not all tragically flawed. Besides, one person's trash is another's treasure.

Whats so scary about not discarding a guy, or three? As long as they don't dress in a kilt and ask for roadhead, give them the benefit of the doubt!! ;-)



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 08.04.04 (7:46 am)

Reply to: riverrat338
I just snorted water out my nose when I read that you're the man for me.

Surely you know better from reading my adventures by now???



posted by: riverrat338 (reply)
post date: 08.04.04 (7:53 am)

just joking. i could never keep up with you girl!

but i'm glad i made ya giggle.



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 08.04.04 (7:56 am)

Reply to: riverrat338
You always make me giggle, sometimes guffaw and occasionally chortle.



posted by: nullfactor (reply)
post date: 08.04.04 (8:27 am)

Women have been confusing men for centuries. It's our turn, now! Moooahahahahahaaaaaaa....



posted by: riverrat338 (reply)
post date: 08.04.04 (10:41 am)

yeah! what he^ said.

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