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07.21.04 (7:42 am)   [edit]
I've been around Tblog for a couple of months and one thing I have never quite understood. Perhaps some of you guys can illuminate something for me...

I get "friend requests" constantly from people that 1) never comment on my blog 2) I've never communicated with on Tblurt 3) never communicated via tmail 4) never hear from again.

[b][i]Is it just a matter of adding more notches to their bedpost? Am I being used? Should I feel cheap? [/i][/b]
 


posted by: RedneckOtaku (reply)
post date: 07.21.04 (4:51 am)

I think people use it as a quick access to blogs they enjoy reading.



posted by: TorryGirl (reply)
post date: 07.21.04 (5:11 am)

I know exactly what you mean! It's strange.
I get comments on some of my entries that just say "Hello" or "hi" - that's not a comment, it's an introduction!



posted by: LastPoeticKiss (reply)
post date: 07.21.04 (5:12 am)

Yes Scuba, you are being used. I would feel cheap as well. =P

But I have to agree with Redneck...easy access with bloggers people like.



posted by: deviant1 (reply)
post date: 07.21.04 (5:14 am)

a grab for those valuable tbucks! Whatever those are good for.

BTW (off topic) I can't login to tblog, even after a new password and removing the old cookies I get authentication errors. Anyone know how to solve this?




posted by: rinna (reply)
post date: 07.21.04 (5:24 am)

i agree with redneckotaku and lastpoetickiss too... i get a few like that - and it's like, wtf?
x r x



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 07.21.04 (5:33 am)

Reply to: deviant1
Someone else had that problem a week or so ago. It was something to do with their computer.

You can email Rocky or tech support - the links are on tblog.com's home page.



posted by: J (reply)
post date: 07.21.04 (5:47 am)

LOL this is funny. i know what u mean. i used to check out their blog to see whats up with them and if ive talked to them but now i just delete them. weird huh?



posted by: Mimi (reply)
post date: 07.21.04 (7:03 am)

as a relatively new blogger, i think, at least in my case, is that i will go to someone's blog because my sister "knows" them and I like to get to know who her friends are and what they are about, and then, from there, a friend may have mentioned another "blogger friend" and I go there to see, and sometimes I say hello and sometimes, I do not...depending on the feeling I get from reading some of the posts. Should I feel like, hey, we might have a common thread, I go back, etc. So, don't feel used, just feel like someone took an interest to check you out and maybe even thought you were pretty interesting! LOL! big hugs



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 07.21.04 (8:18 am)

Reply to: RedneckOtaku
Easy access eh?



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 07.21.04 (8:18 am)

Reply to: TorryGirl
Or a way to get tbucks? ;)



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 07.21.04 (8:19 am)

Reply to: LastPoeticKiss
I think I need to go shower now. I feel so dirty! LOL



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 07.21.04 (8:19 am)

Reply to: Mimi
But those people never come back... so it's kinda like a one-night stand, tblog style.



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 07.21.04 (8:56 am)

Reply to: KRAZEDONE
You need to make it an entire blog on YOURS.



posted by: Mimi (reply)
post date: 07.21.04 (9:38 am)

does this mean i am welcome to come back...i enjoyed my visit! LOL! xoxox



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 07.21.04 (9:45 am)

Reply to: Mimi
Unless you're blocked, yes. LOL



posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 07.21.04 (10:04 am)

I think it has something to do with them wanting to snoop into your tBLOG profile. I've gotten quite a few of those too.



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 07.21.04 (10:05 am)

Reply to: SheSpecies
good point.



posted by: Cyberpal (reply)
post date: 07.21.04 (11:42 am)

I get it all the time too.... not quite sure what the lick is.. when you work it out lemme know too! :)



posted by: likeabadstar (reply)
post date: 07.21.04 (6:38 pm)

yes you tblog friend WHORE!



posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 07.21.04 (7:09 pm)

I thought *I* was the tblog whore. *pouts*



posted by: ODUwildman (reply)
post date: 07.21.04 (10:21 pm)

Hey, you're a tfriend, cause we been here since we both started!

You're slightly more popular than I, since I don't talk about hedging my bush.



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 07.22.04 (4:51 am)

Reply to: J
I delete folks too - I'm like - who the heck are you? And I don't let folks be my friends if I don't know them. I'm discriminating. LOL



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 07.22.04 (4:52 am)

Reply to: likeabadstar
Well, considering I'm not a girl that smooches on a first date, I consider this a step on the wild side?



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 07.22.04 (4:52 am)

Reply to: ODUwildman
There's a first time for everything. I'm going to do some work on my bush this weekend I think. ;)



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 07.22.04 (4:53 am)

Reply to: JennsAbsent
You will always be the grande dame tblog whore. I can only dream of reaching your legendary status. Likeabadstar is young, she knows not of your reign... lmao



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 07.22.04 (4:54 am)

Reply to: Cyberpal
Popularity is such a hard burden to bear. LMAO



posted by: eka00 (reply)
post date: 07.22.04 (4:58 am)

So do I.

I like to think of it as love at first post. There are some blogs you read that resonate and at that moment you felt a certain connection with the writer.



posted by: eka00 (reply)
post date: 07.22.04 (4:59 am)

On the other hand what's really weird is this mysterious fellow named "Newbie", he/she doen't have a blog on tblog yet every once in while I recieve an invitation.

How many of you have newbie on your friends list?



posted by: Cyberpal (reply)
post date: 07.22.04 (5:00 am)

Reply to: ScubaDiva
I hear ya lol! :-P



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 07.22.04 (5:09 am)

Reply to: eka00
I don't grant "Newbies" presence on my friends list. ;)



posted by: eka00 (reply)
post date: 07.22.04 (5:24 am)

Reply to: ScubaDiva

oooooooohhh! :P



posted by: Saint027 (reply)
post date: 07.22.04 (7:06 am)

I've noticed I have quite a few friends now, but none of them are people I actually converse with. I don't get it either.



posted by: nullfactor (reply)
post date: 07.22.04 (8:39 am)

Wow, it must be cool being used! I haven't received a single request.

I wonder if it's possible to use 'bots to do friend requests? I don't see what the point of 'botting for friends would be, but then again, you never know... :)



posted by: Daisymae (reply)
post date: 07.22.04 (10:46 am)

I too was wondering about that just recently. I don't have many tfriends so to speak...but occasionally do get requests....



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 07.22.04 (11:27 am)

Reply to: Daisymae
I'm cleaning house. If anyone's a Tfriend and hasn't commented lately, their tfriend status is rescinded. (I'm crackin' down!)

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