Hair Hell

Single 30-something Female Dating Debacles and Random Musings in Coffee Shops


Blog For Free!


Archives
Home
2008 May
2008 April
2008 March
2008 February
2008 January
2007 December
2007 November
2007 October
2007 September
2007 August
2007 July
2007 June
2007 May
2007 April
2007 March
2007 January
2006 December
2006 November
2006 October
2006 September
2006 August
2006 July
2006 June
2006 May
2006 April
2006 March
2006 February
2006 January
2005 December
2005 November
2005 October
2005 September
2005 August
2005 July
2005 June
2005 May
2005 April
2005 March
2005 February
2005 January
2004 December
2004 November
2004 October
2004 September
2004 August
2004 July
2004 June
2004 May
2004 April

My Links
Scuba Diving Pics
Pussy Pics
My Bush
My new pal Dan The Music Man's site
Scuba Diving Mag
Info on Breast Reductions
The Fair Tax

tBlog
My Profile
Send tMail
My tFriends
My Images


Sponsored
Blog



Hair Hell
07.15.04 (7:40 am)   [edit]
I gotta do it. I haven't done it in so long. And I really need to...

I'm trying to recall the last time I got a haircut. Maybe February/March? I've got longish-hair, so it's not like it's that noticeable. I need to do something with it.

I have such a hair dilemma that I'm sure some of you ladies will understand.

When I was 10, I had long gorgeous luxurious hair. But that summer, I was being shipped off to 8week horse camp (while my parents started their divorce). The mom required that I whack off my hair. At the time, the "Dorthy Hamil" was 'the' cut. I cried for days afterwards. To make me feel better, the mom bought me Dorthy Hamil's special shampoo "Short n' Sassy". My hair was short but I never felt particularly sassy.

So, ever since then, I have been on the pendulum between letting my hair grow out and then getting tired/frustrated about the situation and cutting it shorter. (Never as short as that god-awful Dorthy Hamil cut).

Lately, it's been more about layers than length. The layers are somewhat grown out. Somewhere inbetween.

I have such a love-hate relationship with my hair. I'm a Leo, who are known for their mane of hair. And I'm very much identified with my red hair. But my illness has my hair shedding - a lot. I feel like I'll be bald by xmas at this rate...

Anyway...because I'm on medical leave from work, I haven't had to do much fussing with my hair. I've been keeping it twisted up on my head for the summer.

Summer + my hair = SHEER FRUSTRATION
It's very humid down here in Atlanta and my hair loves to kink up. Now, if it would kink in a consistent manner or a curly manner, it'd be ok. But it looks more like those "Before" pictures by John Frieda where the woman looks like you took her lollipop away. So I must apply a zillion products and straighten it.

But, 5 mins later, when I walk outside, it looks like I never touched it.

I really think I should take a pic every morning when I do my hair - and wear it around my neck with a sign that says "I really did do my hair this a.m., I swear!"
Something about a bad hair day that just drives me nuts. Thank goodness for hats. I have quite a collection of straw hats for summer. I can hide under there.

So, I'm heading off to get my hair whacked, I mean cut, this morning. Not sure what I'm going to do to it. I've also been toying with the idea of becoming a brunette for a while. Maybe I'll do that this fall... Maybe I won't have any hair left.

Maybe the bald Demi Moore look will come back into vogue, but I won't hold my breath.

 


posted by: 2luckynlove (reply)
post date: 07.15.04 (5:18 am)

My mother did the same torturous thing to me. Her brother did it and after I cried for hours he vowed never to do family hair again. He hasn't either. Too bad you didn't live closer. I have the same fights with my hair and found a wonderful man that does great. He gave me a european cut with layers and I love it. My hair is still about mid back but easier to manage and still long enough all over to put up out of the way for summer. For frizz there is stuff called Ion at the beauty supply stores. Works great. It's very humid here too. Good luck.



posted by: Saint027 (reply)
post date: 07.15.04 (7:48 am)

*thanks God I was born a man*

LOL Too much drama for me!



posted by: Atomsk (reply)
post date: 07.15.04 (8:19 am)

yeah i am thinking of shaving my head blad again perhaps i will do that today



posted by: likeabadstar (reply)
post date: 07.15.04 (8:57 am)

FINALLY SOMEONE ELSE THAT HAD TO ENDURE THE DORTHY HAMIL HAIRCUT. i too had this haircut in my earlier days.



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 07.15.04 (11:23 am)

Reply to: likeabadstar
Maybe the trauma and embarrassment led to stress which caused our Raynauds?



posted by: likeabadstar (reply)
post date: 07.15.04 (5:31 pm)

Reply to: ScubaDiva
OMGOSH YOU HAVE DISCOVERED THE CAUSE!



posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 07.15.04 (5:44 pm)

I love layers...they're so much fun. I can sympathise about the humidity. Gawd...I suffered with that shit when I was in Houston. Not fun...I have naturally curly hair, what a mess! No hope for straightening it unless I want to look like the bride of Frankenstein. LOL

I bet you'd be really sexy as a brunette. Red, brown, bald, still the sexiest scuba chickie I know! ;-)



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 07.15.04 (5:57 pm)

Reply to: SheSpecies
It's too short. :(
Alas, not much I can do about it now - it's not like they can glue it back on.




posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 07.15.04 (6:50 pm)

Reply to: ScubaDiva
Awww. Well, it'll grow back. ;-)



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 07.15.04 (8:54 pm)

Reply to: SheSpecies
Or I could get fake-looking extensions?



posted by: Cyberpal (reply)
post date: 07.16.04 (8:14 am)

I second what saint said.... way too much drama... and that's just the hair!! Yikes!! ;-P



posted by: charcoaldust09 (reply)
post date: 07.16.04 (2:11 pm)

i understand what your are talking about....it takes me about 15 to 20 minutes to do my hair...but then when i get to school, or get on the bus..it doesn't look like i even did anything....BUT IT LOOKED SOO GOOD WHEN I HAD FINISHED!!!!!

Your Name:


Your Comment:


DIVA'S WORDS provided
by Redonthehead