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What sexy is...
06.15.04 (8:11 pm)   [edit]
I was thinking tonight as I was paying my dues to the treadmill gods about what is sexy...

There's the overt stuff, like thigh highs, a peek of lacy lingerie, showing some skin, high heels for a woman. In a man, there's the traditional stuff like abs, a tight shirt, pink frilly panties (kidding!). That kind of stuff doesn't take rocket science.

Then there are the more subtle things. To me, I find those a lot more intriguing.


[b]What do you find sexy in a potential or current mate? And what do you consider sexy about yourself? And, for the sake of it, let's all assume that a person's brain and sense of humor are all on the list...[/b]
 


posted by: Grece (reply)
post date: 06.15.04 (5:46 pm)

Sexy to me? The way a man smells. Too much of anything is a bad thing...everything should be in moderation. Too much cologne is just as bad as too much BO but a man who is a bit sweaty after some good work is the sexiest of all.



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.15.04 (5:52 pm)

Reply to: Grece
Agreed - I prefer the simple smell of the man himself - his soap, aftershave at most. I don't want his cologne (or BO) to enter the room after him.



posted by: seagrass (reply)
post date: 06.15.04 (6:07 pm)

beautiful eyes...there a whole universe to explore there.



posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 06.15.04 (6:10 pm)

Hmmm...curious. I just responded to this and now the comment is gone. LOL

One of the sexiest things to me is the way a person can carry themself. There's an air of confidence and grace that gets my blood hot to watch...

With the right person, eye contact can be really super sexy too...there's that 'look' that just flips my insides out. Mmmm...

I'm a huge fan of skin too...something as simple as a touch on the leg, the inside of the arm, or the back of the neck...wow. :-)

And I know that brains are cliche...but intellect really turns me on. Humour is good, but the intellect is what gets me all warm.



posted by: Magoo (reply)
post date: 06.15.04 (6:26 pm)

A sence of humour, the ability to laugh at ones self, and Marks hairy chest (and belly) are some of the things I find sexy about him......hahahahaha



posted by: dumblondegirl (reply)
post date: 06.15.04 (7:25 pm)

My husband is a hottie. He has awesome legs, a great ass, tall, dark and handsome with clear blue eyes. *sigh* I love nice biceps on a guy too. I don't know why?

I'm not the right person to say what is sexy on me... I have low self-esteem. I've been told my eyes and my legs.



posted by: Coldtones (reply)
post date: 06.15.04 (8:19 pm)

Reply to: dumblondegirl
did you say your legs



posted by: Coldtones (reply)
post date: 06.15.04 (8:19 pm)

hmm i dunno what i like... lol



posted by: misskendy (reply)
post date: 06.15.04 (11:39 pm)

I love the curve of a mans jaw...and especially if they have a bit of a dimple it just melts me.

My best feature? hmmm my smile I guess.



posted by: juniperflux (reply)
post date: 06.16.04 (1:14 am)

Hands. It's all about the hands.




posted by: dumblondegirl (reply)
post date: 06.16.04 (2:08 am)

Reply to: Coldtones
Yes sir, I did.



posted by: newbie (reply)
post date: 06.16.04 (2:12 am)

sexy eh! a resonant voice and a strong belly laugh. Nice.........



posted by: Saint027 (reply)
post date: 06.16.04 (3:54 am)

Confidence. The way a woman carries herself, both in her walk and her speech. She doesn't need to be arrogant, just confident. Too many women want to be the hottest thing on the planet and get upset when they're not. Be happy and confident in who you are. Its sexy as hell, trust me.

ME? Mwa? Of course I have a nice ass, even in pink frilly panties. lol It would be my confidence. I know who I am, so I don't suffer from the "I'm not good enough" complex. If I'm not "good enough" for someone, I'm ok with that. I got pretty good shoulders too. And of course that Marine-like V-shaped torso. I think most women like that. lol



posted by: Cutter (reply)
post date: 06.16.04 (4:03 am)

What gets me? Their voice, and their command/use of the English language. Their scent. Their facial structure. The shape of their hands...

As for what others see in me, I don't know. "Sexy" is in the eye of the beholder. I can't judge myself that way.



posted by: Coldtones (reply)
post date: 06.16.04 (6:54 am)

Reply to: dumblondegirl
***stumbles and falls***



posted by: BLOU (reply)
post date: 06.16.04 (7:23 am)

For me, it's the "look" then the smile. We can be at a party or even just in the car ... he just looks at me and then slowly comes the smile ....



posted by: Cyberpal (reply)
post date: 06.16.04 (7:37 am)

Curves... does it for me all the time. Give me a curvacious woman and I'll show you sexy!! Yay!! ;)



posted by: riverrat338 (reply)
post date: 06.16.04 (1:46 pm)

eyes eyes eyes
smile, nice hair, personality...pizza



posted by: ihateyou2734 (reply)
post date: 06.16.04 (2:21 pm)

im with grece i think the way a guy smells, n i like when they have long-ish hair like not long like aa girls but like a frock (thats what they call it here)



posted by: Atomsk (reply)
post date: 06.16.04 (3:15 pm)

Well besides the obvious things guys like in girls (Messurments mainly) The next thing i always check is a womans smile. Not her flirty smile or fake smile just the one she makes when she reads something that is nice, or hears good news. The type of smile that can make you just forget all the problems in the world. And she has to have a gaze that break ice and warm souls.

Oh yeah she has to smell good too. And i don't mean just perfume. I mean normal sent. So she better take a bath everday LOL



posted by: riverrat338 (reply)
post date: 06.16.04 (3:50 pm)

ihateyou:
you talking bout a mullet?
business up front....party in the back!



posted by: leisa (reply)
post date: 06.16.04 (6:06 pm)

what i find most sexy is having those sparks, electricity - something has to click for me to find someone really sexy.

also i agree with grece - the way a man smells is intoxicating




posted by: Atomsk (reply)
post date: 06.16.04 (6:45 pm)

Reply to: SheSpecies

Well if you take out the gropping or "touching" as you call it. LOL you just described a saleman Cat.



posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 06.16.04 (6:59 pm)

Reply to: Atomsk
Well, I have been attracted to some salespeople before, yes. LOL But it also describes a lot more people than just them. ;-)



posted by: shimmer (reply)
post date: 06.16.04 (7:38 pm)

eyes....the small of a woman's back....the natural scent of the woman you are attracted to.....the curves of a woman's body...intelligence....compassion shown by a woman to those she loves.....a woman's neck......the sexiest thing may be the chemistry or electricity that you get from someone you are strongly attracted to.



posted by: misskendy (reply)
post date: 06.16.04 (7:38 pm)

Reply to: riverrat338
i got pizza...



posted by: riverrat338 (reply)
post date: 06.16.04 (8:28 pm)

misskendy: baby...thats sexy...mmmmmmmm



posted by: rinna (reply)
post date: 06.16.04 (11:28 pm)

for a man - he has to be able to laugh at himself and do stupid things at my whim. aesthetically speaking, the neck and back are very important to me. and hands. and no manky feet thanks.

me? i've been told my rack and eyes, but i my rack's too big for me, it always has been, always will be. aesthetically, my eyes. that and i'm a firm believer in laughing at myself and making people laugh. :D



posted by: chicalookate (reply)
post date: 06.17.04 (8:29 am)

Confidence, abliity to laugh at ones self, brains. And I really love when someone is really focused on you, they are listening to you and tuning out everything else and aren't preparing what they are going to say nex. Those all work for me. In terms of looks it varies from person to person.



posted by: lynne (reply)
post date: 06.17.04 (11:51 am)

I met this guy recently and we went sailing. And he was *really* a good sailor. I dont know why, but I found that sexy as all get out. It was really windy so we had to reef the sails and while we were doing that, I just kept thinking, "you can reef my sail anytime, big boy" HAHAHA.



posted by: likeabadstar (reply)
post date: 06.17.04 (5:58 pm)

sexy is as sexy does.



posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 06.18.04 (5:23 am)

Sexy to me is broad strong sexy shoulders. Oh god. I have such a thing for shoulders. *sigh* it's gotten me into more trouble!! LOL!

Sexy about me? oh man.. let me think....
I'm trying to think of what C would say. My breasts? LOL or maybe my "I like to fuck alot" attitude. :D



posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 06.18.04 (5:29 am)

Missing you LT! Comeeeeeee back!!!!!



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.18.04 (7:10 am)

Reply to: JennsAbsent
I miss u guys too.



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.18.04 (4:26 pm)

Reply to: riverrat338
Pizza??? I thought it was Hershey's Caramel Kisses.



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.18.04 (4:28 pm)

Reply to: Atomsk
What a great answer. Makes a girl swoon. ;)



posted by: mnash (reply)
post date: 06.22.04 (10:51 am)

I've always been attracted to an athletic woman. Someone who looks good in a hat on a golf course.



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.22.04 (10:57 am)

Reply to: mnash
I drive a mean golf cart. ;)

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