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Guy Speak
03.18.08 (11:12 am)   [edit]
I'm still struggling with the Hot Stud situation.

Recapping - about a month ago, I told him that he could stop with the suggestions of us 'hooking up' because I wasn't going to go there.

He's definitely toned it down but he's made a few references. I've ignored them.

Yesterday, he called and commented that I sounded tired. I was. And my back is hurting - all the driving/sitting I'm doing seems to make it sore.

Hot Stud offered to 'put an elbow to it'. (He's a massage therapist by trade). He also keeps saying he's going to do some work around the house that I've already paid him for. (He's done most of it.)

I told him that he was too busy. I understand he's trying to get a new professional focus off the ground. He said he wasn't.

I laughed. He suggested he would take care of the house stuff and my back and I could cook him dinner and we could 'maybe watch a movie'.

To me, with the guys in the past, 'watching a movie' has always been code for 'getting busy'.
It totally tugs at my heart strings. I guess either I didn't make it clear to him that it HURT when he suggested casual hook ups or he just doesn't care.

Despite him being a male, I really think that he just didn't hear what I had to say. I've tried to bite my tongue but I can't keep silent and let it slide by - I try to  let it go -but it doesn't work.
 


posted by: PirateGirl (reply)
post date: 03.18.08 (10:53 am)

*sigh*
hope you can get him to understand



posted by: nightbreed (reply)
post date: 03.18.08 (11:05 am)

males never listen..what ever the age or iq

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