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Mr. Distraction
02.26.08 (4:19 pm)   [edit]

I had a rather disappointing date. He kept taking calls and texting.

I was extremely put-off by that.

I'm sorry but if I'm there to meet you, I want your undivided attention. (If you're a heart surgeon or a superhero, that's different.)

Not to mention, he saw some people he knew and started talking to them - didn't bother introducing me - one of them ended up initiating it. I kinda got tired of being ignored after a couple of minutes, so I said that I needed to go. He didn't even bother to offer walking me to my car. (So much for chivalry!)

So this morning, Mr. Distraction leaves a voicemail saying that he really enjoyed our time together and apologized for being distracted. That he wanted to get together soon for a drink.

All indicators to me, being that I've been dating a while, is that he wasn't 'that' into me by the calls/texts and the rest of the stuff.

I don't even think I want to bother with going through the charade of a second date. If he can do so miserably when one should be on their best behavior, what's down the road?

 


posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 02.26.08 (1:46 pm)

Nothing! If it were me, I'd decline any future dates with Mr. Distraction!



posted by: OldSchool (reply)
post date: 02.26.08 (4:35 pm)

I think your thinking is exactly right. Not worth your time or effort either.



posted by: auntconi (reply)
post date: 02.26.08 (5:29 pm)

I agree with the previous two comments, completely!



posted by: Barnabus1 (reply)
post date: 02.26.08 (8:38 pm)

In total agreement...Drop this DUD!!!!
At least you found out without investing a lot of time and energy into this 'relationship' that ain't!!!!



posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 02.27.08 (4:45 am)

Reply to: Barnabus1
I am glad to know that I'm not being too picky on this one.



posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 02.27.08 (4:47 am)

Reply to: rosietulips
Haven't told him officially "Thanks but no thanks" yet. He's a really handsome man - I wonder if he's used to getting away with that behavior all the time?



posted by: fractalmom (reply)
post date: 02.27.08 (10:40 am)

{{singing}}....he's a loser baby, so why don't you kill him.....



posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 02.27.08 (10:56 am)

Reply to: fractalmom
Nah - no need to kill him. Just let him continue on business as usual...sans moi.

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