So much for not kissing and telling (although there was no lip action)

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So much for not kissing and telling (although there was no lip action)
01.15.08 (4:44 pm)   [edit]
I had a decent interaction with one guy, but his last email put a nail in the coffin. I was EXTREMELY clear that I wasn't looking for a boink-buddy.

Here is his last email:
"we can meet at a public place....talk, know, understand each other and see how it goes, if we don’t click, we shake hands and leave as friends….and if we click and are attracted, we can go to your place sit down, talk and spend some alone intimate time and see where that leads.....these small things with a good friend and a few good memories are what are precious...no pressure

kiss, feel, smell, look deep in the eyes, flirt, tempt, tease, explore, put fingers thru the hair, look in the eyes while kissing passionately and hard till breathless,  talk like long lost lovers……the se are MORe imp then raw sex !!!

as i said earlier, i was looking for friendship and intimacy both, from the 1st meeting if there was an attraction........not looking for a promise, but someone open to it if there was an attraction......intimacy does not mean hard core sex, but fun, mutual passionate times, could just be a kiss, or more…if you are interested lets talk, if you are not, I can respect that too
if this is not what you are looking for, then i am sorry to have bothered you..just being honest and direct...there is no manual on how to do this, just what ever your heart tells you to and being honest !"

Chances of me letting him go to my house on the first date? I'd be more likely to wear white shoes after Labor Day.

Chances of me letting him come over to fool around in the near future... See above. I my girl-dar says this is a wolf in sheeps clothing.
 


posted by: OldSchool (reply)
post date: 01.15.08 (1:58 pm)

Wow, this guy could teach a class in "How to scare a girl off as quickly as possible." At least he is being honest and up front with his ambitions. Gives you a chance to run the other way as fast as your non-white shoes can carry you.



posted by: LadyG (reply)
post date: 01.15.08 (3:33 pm)

I agree, a wolf.



posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 01.16.08 (5:32 am)

Reply to: OldSchool
A friend recommended me meeting him just to see what kind of earrings he was going to give me as a gift.
I admit - I find that amusing. How can someone pick something so personal for someone they've never met and have utterly no clue what their style was.

Unless it was 2 carat diamond studs.
HA



posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 01.16.08 (5:32 am)

Reply to: LadyG
I'm so amused by it.



posted by: OldSchool (reply)
post date: 01.16.08 (6:20 am)

Reply to: scubadiva
I would think it would either be to impress you or with an expectation of something in return. Not worth it. Cross him off the list and move on to the next dude.



posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 01.16.08 (6:36 am)

Reply to: OldSchool
Remember, I have a goal of going on a date with 100 different men this year.
Secondly, it would provide plenty of interesting writing material.. ;)
It's ALL for my readers. LOL

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