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| Creepy |
| 01.11.08 (7:42 am) [edit] |
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Earlier this week, I got a most peculiar comment on my blog from someone I didn't know. I did some digging. Turns out I found her profile and pictures - realized that she is "N's" girlfriend. (Only because one of her pics had a partial shot of him.) I dated "N" for about 3 weeks over 3 years ago. Nice guy but not the guy for me. Shortly thereafter, he started dating this girl. And I use the term girl because she was 18. "N" was in his mid-30's. I'm not sure how she found out about me but she started stalking my blog, making comments that were completely inappropriate and none of her damn business. I deleted them. Finally, I had to call "N" and tell him to have his gf leave me alone. However, she was still reading my blog. Eventually, she disappeared. Now, all of a sudden, she's back. Commenting and emailing me. She's still with "N" although she's a 'mature' 22 now. And knocked up. I've never met this girl. I haven't talked to "N" in years other than a brief chat on behalf of a friend that was looking for a job. I don't have any sort of 'agenda' with him. I have utterly NO desire to revisit him. Sure, I'd have coffee with him - he's a nice guy - but WTF? I cannot understand why he would put up with someone so immature and psycho. I've been deleting her comments again. I don't want to have to call him and tell him to keep his gf in line. |
posted by: PastorDave (reply)
post date: 01.11.08 (7:13 am)
We used to have a way to block such people from commenting on our blogs. With the new and improved t-Blog, now going about 2 years, we can't do it. That would be the best solution. Nick...where are you?
posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 01.11.08 (7:21 am)
Reply to: PastorDave
It's not this blog... It's myspace. That's not the point. The girl is a creepy fascination with me. (Someone suggested that maybe "N" calls out my name in a moment of passion although we never consummated things... The boink he never got! LOL)
posted by: LadyG (reply)
post date: 01.11.08 (8:35 am)
She is very insecure in their relationship, sad.
posted by: PirateGirl (reply)
post date: 01.11.08 (8:46 am)
You just may have to make a direct call to her - instead of involving him at all,(He can't really control what she does anyway) - Call her out - Go directly to the source, and tell her to leave you alone, period!
posted by: auntconi (reply)
post date: 01.11.08 (8:50 am)
creepy is right ~ ugh!
posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 01.11.08 (12:59 pm)
Although your blog *is* a fascinating read, you'd think this girl would have other priorities?!
posted by: Heather (reply)
post date: 01.11.08 (1:09 pm)
I'm not sure I want to comment here, but as I am insulted here and in the comments. In the past, I made ONE comment you found in appropriate, although you attributed other anonymous comments to me that I never made (Check IP addresses, if needed). I read your blog because it is a good interesting blog. I found it because we have a couple of mutual acquaintances (former aquarium and a guy you went on a couple dates with) and they referred me to it before I knew it was you. I feel it unfair you call me immature and psycho.
I am not insecure with my husband. Why would I be? We've been together since July 2004, are married, and about to have a child. I am only commenting here, and let me make this clear, because it is not a faithful recount and I feel casts me in a negative light that is undeserved.
This blog you made does not equal with the actual reality of things. Before you posted this, when I realized I had accidentally commented to your blog thinking I was reading someone else's (only saying d'oh about the mismatched shoes) I had emailed you to apologize. The exchange follows, as copied and pasted from my Myspace inbox...
"From ScubaDiva
No, that wasn't the freak out. My new kittens lined up all their toy mice next to my bed during the night - which was exactly what my deceased cats used to do.
As long as you're not claiming you have money for me from relatives in Nigeria or offering to increase my penis size...
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Quixotic
Date: Jan 7, 2008 1:24 PM
I just realized I replied to your blog. Sorry! I've been reading it because it's a good blog and there's so few of those... I know you had asked for me not to comment and I didn't mean to. I just forgot where I was and the shoe thing was funny. Umm, not sure if I should send this or not, but wanted to say I wasn't intentionally going against what you wished.
Didn't mean to freak you out by having a stranger comment.
All the best to you. "
I still wish you all the best. I think you are a wonderful person and like reading about how far you've come. However, please do not be dishonest about such matters in the future.
by Redonthehead