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The Mom Visit
12.26.07 (7:45 am)   [edit]
My 'brief' visit with my mother yesterday ended up being 4 hours. It was...painful. I'll write about it more later. Gotta boogie. Hope everyone got some great loot and had a good holiday with family and loved ones.
 


posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 12.27.07 (10:55 am)

Only 4 more days until we can put 2007 behind us!



posted by: PastorDave (reply)
post date: 12.27.07 (7:14 pm)

4 hours with mom...can't be too bad?



posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 12.28.07 (5:53 am)

Reply to: rosietulips
Three more days... (sigh)



posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 12.28.07 (5:53 am)

Reply to: PastorDave
I think the word 'torturous' would be an understatement.



posted by: auntconi (reply)
post date: 12.30.07 (6:36 pm)

If this is too difficult to write about, scubs, don't feel like you have to do it. I am sure we'll all understand. I do hope you have a nice New Year's celebration, even if it is just chilling and enjoying the calm after a busy time with your new job.

Seems like the way the holiday is falling it can be a long celebration, starting with the weekend through Tuesday. Enjoy the best you can!

Hope you are doing well ~ ((hugs))




posted by: GinRummy (reply)
post date: 01.02.08 (1:53 pm)

Mom is family, and she is always love one :)





posted by: auntconi (reply)
post date: 01.05.08 (7:55 pm)

Hey there missy scoobs (as surrogate calls you) ~ are you okay?
I hope so ~ we haven't heard from you in a while.
Check in to at least let us know that you 'are okay' ~ okay?



posted by: auntconi (reply)
post date: 01.05.08 (7:57 pm)

*correcton ~ surrogate just calls you scoobs ~ I added the missy part. Do we have to come down and see what you are up to?
We could, you know!

I know, we could have PastorDave stop by and see how you are.
Yes, that's it! If we don't hear from you, I'll give him a shout!



posted by: tamidc (reply)
post date: 01.05.08 (11:47 pm)

you suck too!!! lol....



posted by: ammegan (reply)
post date: 01.09.08 (12:35 am)

Happy New Year ScubaDiva! ;)



posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 01.09.08 (4:52 am)

Reply to: ammegan
Back at ya! Have you gotten used to writing 2008 yet?



posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 01.09.08 (4:53 am)

Reply to: auntconi
Actually, Surrogate calls me nothing anymore. But that's a long story.

I've just been really really busy and didn't really have anything significant to post... Didn't want to bore you. I have a certain standard to keep up, ya know?



posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 01.09.08 (4:54 am)

Reply to: GinRummy
I totally agree - unfortunately sometimes the way people show their love isn't healthy.



posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 01.09.08 (4:57 am)

Reply to: auntconi
Long and short of it was that she's really declined in health and how she looks. I feel really bad about it - trying to balance what's best for me while trying to maintain a relationship with her.

She said she didn't like the other therapist because she wanted to 'rehash' the past. (That's what a therapist needs to do to understand why you're in therapy, right?) There's someone else that she wants to see - so she's checking out this therapist later this month. I told her that I would see anyone she chose....

I just don't believe she has the capability to be truly honest about her feelings and stuff - or capable to change. And I'm not sure if I can adjust the way I interact with her any more than I have - I spent time in therapy repeatedly trying to come up with ways to interact with her that didn't drive me insane.



posted by: auntconi (reply)
post date: 01.09.08 (6:47 pm)

Reply to: scubadiva

The decline in health is not always easy to deal with ~ do the best you can, sweetie!

Glad to hear you are busy with the job ~ that sounds good ~ hope it continues to be a good thing!



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