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Date Update
10.07.07 (9:55 am)   [edit]
On Friday, I wanted to be distracted. I wanted a date just to get out of the house. Hot Stud is out of town. The usual suspects were not around.

So I reached out to "B". We met five years ago - I went on a sales call with him. He declined my sales pitch but texted me later to ask me out.

He was really cute and I was really fat and didn't think he could be serious.

We stayed in contact over the years but never saw each other again. He was cocky and seemed like all he wanted was a boink. (Nothing against that, but I wasn't looking for that.)

Friday night, I wasn't looking for a boink per-se, I thought maybe I'd play along and we'd have some intoxicating kissing. It's been so long since I've had a kiss...

He wanted me to meet him at his place. I said no-go. So we met at a place next to his condo. He was just as cute as before. He was sort of shocked when he saw me (in a good way). I didn't get get gussied up - I was in jeans and a simple shirt. I wore what I had been in all day.

He wasn't the cocky arrogant ass I had recalled him to be. The conversation was awesome. It was a gorgeous night, we were sitting outside the bar - but people were smoking pot and cigars and it was annoying. So we went up to the top of his condo and watched the stars and talked for hours and hours.

He definitely got some major bonus points. He was talking about how his family raised him to be respectful of women and how he found independent strong women attractive. Then he said something about women reporting rape. Well, I shared with him the brief version of what went on. He brushed a curl out of my face and told me that he hoped one day that I'd consider him one of my 'inner circle' that I could trust and rely on.

And yes, he kissed wonderfully. I definitely want to see him again. He wanted to see me today but I have to get some work done and I don't want this to go too fast. It was a much-needed escape.
 


posted by: LadyG (reply)
post date: 10.07.07 (9:51 am)

That is wonderful news, glad you were able to get out and get that well needed kiss.



posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 10.07.07 (10:10 am)

Reply to: LadyG
Well, it was more than just one kiss. It was so nice... I needed another. And another.



posted by: auntconi (reply)
post date: 10.07.07 (1:27 pm)

Nice ~ very nice to hear that he turned out better than your recollection ~ very nice! ~ umm, I do believe I repeated myself!
;)



posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 10.07.07 (1:49 pm)

Reply to: auntconi
I wish I wasn't so swamped with my marketing project right now - I'd love to spend some more time with him - he makes me laugh. But, I don't want to overdo things right now. It's hard to keep things in balance - I'm rather emotionally fragile right now...




posted by: auntconi (reply)
post date: 10.07.07 (2:25 pm)

Reply to: scubadiva ~ I totally understand and hope things work out for the best, very soon. You have a lot on your calendar as well with the legal process, and the 'mother thing' all on top of the recent loss. ((hugs))




posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 10.09.07 (10:13 am)

Sounds like your date was a very nice distraction!! :)

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