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| Momma Drama |
| 09.27.07 (6:53 am) [edit] |
| Got not one, but two letters from the mom yesterday. I told her (repeatedly) that I wanted no further communication with her - I have her names of several therapists in her area - told her to set up an appt and they could email me the details. Apparently she is either incapable of comprehending that or she (as history has demonstrated) is going to continue to proceed without regard to anything I say (ie boundaries). One of her letters details that there is an answering service or answering machine for each therapist. I specifically picked ones in her area and was letting her decide on one that SHE was comfortable with. I am going to reply with a brief message advising her that all further communication will be returned. I've given her the information. She can either set the appointment or not. I really don't care. I started having some anxiety last night just reading the letters. Makes me doubt even proceeding with this. I don't need the drama. It is not a huge ordeal to select one of four or five therapists and make an appointment. However, she makes it a huge ordeal. I don't need any more ordeals in my life. |
posted by: raggedtiger (reply)
post date: 09.27.07 (5:41 am)
who mom is it?
posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 09.27.07 (8:26 am)
Reply to: raggedtiger
My mother.
posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 09.27.07 (11:09 am)
No, you definitely don't need more ordeals! Hopefully, your mom will either make the appointment or respect your wishes (I'm not sure moms know how to respect boundaries, though.)
posted by: auntconi (reply)
post date: 09.27.07 (11:13 pm)
Ooops ~
sorry about your reply rosietulips ~ but there are mom's who know how to respect boundaries!
It is obvious that scubadiva's mother does not, as this has been going on for quite some time as evidenced by comments made throughout the journal, and that is a shame.
I will leave it at that!
by Redonthehead