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Cold-hearted bitch
06.16.07 (4:40 pm)   [edit]
I went to training for my new job in mid-April. One of my new Atlanta co-workers and I somewhat bonded. Nice girl, a bit on the ditzy /naive side, but I wasn't going to have her do brain surgery on me. We were going to get together the week after we returned from training to commiserate and strategize. She stood me up the first time. Canceled last minute the second time (ie I was already at the coffee shop). She ended up canceling THREE more times - I was pissed and voiced that. After the fifth time, I told her, point-blank that I was done with her. Told my boss that as well - he said he understood and wouldn't have put up with it either. It's been a month since I told her I was fed up but she keeps calling. (I have it on my phone that calls from her go directly into voice mail.) Three times last week - various excuses about needing to talk to me like wanting to know how they buy tickets for the aquarium. (Uh, 7 million people have visited and gotten tickets without my assistance!) It's courtesy. I scheduled other things around to accommodate time to meet with her because we had committed to meet. (Granted, after the 2nd time, I had back-up plans so that I wasn't left hanging...) Part of me is tempted to tell her to that I have no desire to interact with her at all and to quit calling. But I don't know if she'll go running to the boss with it. I don't want to inflame the situation, so I've just been hoping she'd get the clue. But I *hate hate hate* when people give me the silent treatment. Granted, I told her why I was over her - so there's no wondering. The calls are a minor annoyance. She didn't knwo me well enough to realize when you push me far enough to piss me off, there is little that can be done to redeem oneself. And quite frankly, I don't see her as someone significant to add to my life. Geesh, that sounds cold, doesn't it?
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