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posted by: sjmclean (reply) post date: 05.27.07 (1:52 am) Yehehe ... maybe he just said about the movie cause he just wanted to see you quick. And it's not prudent for a guy to ask his girl out to his or her house ... usually that's the girl's job ;) ... maybe if you fell more comfortable that way just tell him - I'm sure he'll like more the idea. posted by: scubadiva (reply) post date: 05.27.07 (5:30 am) Reply to: sjmclean I mentioned in an email to him yesterday that my vacuum tipped over and fell on my foot - maybe he thinks I'm too injured to play? Inviting a guy over to watch a movie is generally code for 'nookie'. I wish that it wasn't always that way - it'd be nice to just be comfortable and actually watch a movie. I'm still really protective of my space since the rape - trusting people and myself. Beforehand, after three dates, I'd have no qualms about having him pick me up at my house. If I'm not comfortable with him picking me up at my place, I'm definitely not comfortable with him hanging out to watch a movie. The litmus test for me is if I feel the guy is 'worthy' of knowing about what happened and the legal case ahead of me - and watching his reaction. Then again, I don't want to make it a big deal. It was a significant event in my life, but I'm still trying to figure out how to position it balanced that it is a significant event but I'm not damaged goods or a victim, blah blah blah. |
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