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Smitten Kitten
04.28.07 (10:08 am)   [edit]
When I blow off a date to stay in and talk on the phone from 9pm until almost 5am, I'm officially smitten. I've told two other guys that I'm busy. I haven't had this sort of connection with someone...ever. But we're taking it very slowly. He's already asked me to keep Monday, Wednesday, and Friday nights free for dates with him. Next weekend he doesn't have his commitments, so we'll have some daytime date time. Oh wait, does seeing someone five days out of seven count as slow? Prediction: I bet he'll send my fave flowers (red gerber daisies) after our date on Monday. The "REAL" indicator will be when I tell "Hot Stud" that I'm smitten. He called yesterday, sick as a dog. Poor thing. Wanted to drive down and make him chicken soup and take care of him.
 


posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 04.30.07 (10:28 am)

Wow, that was quite the convo! Seems like quite the guy :)



posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 04.30.07 (10:36 am)

Reply to: rosietulips
Yep. And I told him about the rape and his response was amazing:

First and to the point....I'm ok with all of this...it does not alter in anyway my desire to meet and get to know you. What is does do is re-enforce the need to understand you and where your boundaries and limits are located.

So here is what I want you to do....take some time and tell me what you don't want to do or what I should avoid... I will make sure that your comfort and security are paramount... It is important to me that you are getting what you want and need from this. It is this joint mindset.

So, I'm not put off by this nor am I alarmed by it...we just need to make sure we both understand how this fits into anything we do and we avoid anything that would trigger a panic attack or some hidden memory. I can work with you on this and I not looking to bail out on you.

I hope this makes you feel better about it all. Call me if you like. :)


Wasn't that just sweet?



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 04.30.07 (11:04 am)

Reply to: scubadiva
yes! That *was* totally sweet! awwww!

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