The revolving door of dates has been quite active lately, so I thought I would give a brief update.
"the crush"
He still calls and emails although he has refrained from making any further sexual innuendos in the past month. Regardless, I'm NOT interested. I find it amusing as hell that he keeps trying.
"CNN photojournalist (or so he claims)"
After the mauling Wednesday night and offer to 'bring me coffee' (code for boink me at my house), I haven't heard a peep from him.
"the restauranteur"
opening a chi-chi restaurant in a few months. We connected b/c of our mutual interest in yoga. However, I am not the typical 'yogi' as I'm a little more high energy than most that I have encountered. Ditto with him.
"Mr. Saint Croix"
We've been communicating for ages on a scuba diving board. Then out of the blue, he announces he's coming to town for 10 days for some training. He's cute. Seems sane. Not interested in a fling or a LDR (long distance relationship). Spending the weekend together showing him the town. He is cute and having a friend in St. Croix to dive/stay with is always a bonus.
"the one I haven't mentioned"
When I don't blog about specifics and dates with a guy, that usually means I dig him...a lot. (Lesson learned from "N" who discovered me writing about our relationship online and subsequently dumped me.) This one, I really really dig. He has his act together (as in a JOB, his own place, stability - everything "the crush" didn't have.) I realized how much I was digging him when I wanted to cancel my other plans during the weekend. This guy is uber-busy - with the JOB, getting his MBA, and other things that I respect his commitment to (none of those being a spouse.) It's been a pleasant pace, getting to know each other and it seems mutual that we see this as something potentially serious. Irony is that a guy I saw over two years ago for some time works under him.
Now is it a small world or have I dated too many men when the degrees of separation are so small?
posted by: FinalyFree (reply)
post date: 04.28.07 (11:53 am)
There must be something in the water, one of my single girlfriends is having quite the same problem, i.e. dates out the ying-yang.
My, my, my there must be quite a connection here. Keeping my fingers crossed :)
posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 04.29.07 (5:47 am)
Reply to: FinalyFree
Three friends yesterday told me (unsolicited) that there was something about this guy because they had never seen me like this before. (Whoa.)