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A good thing
12.07.06 (7:49 am)   [edit]

Let's see.
It's cold.
Cold makes me cranky.
My boss and the 'executive team' are on a 'retreat' (rooms are $340/night) for the rest of the week.
That's a good thing.
I'm still sick.
Hot Stud is confusing me majorly.
Had dinner the other night with a good friend and it was nice reconnecting.
The mom is NOT respecting my boundaries and I believe she entered my home on Saturday while I wasn't there. (Changing deadbolts this weekend). If she tries communicating with me again, I am filing a restraining order. (Discussed with therapist.) Therapist asked me what sort of relationship I wanted with my mother. After a long pause, I said "Right now, I don't want any sort of relationship with her. She's unwilling to go to therapy. She's unwilling to respect my wishes of not contacting me. She's escalating things, trying to manipulate me. I'm not responding to it like she wants. The restraining order may prove a point. Or perhaps it will at least get her to back off. I had nightmares and anxiety attack Sunday - first one in months and months and months. I don't want that sort of drama and shit in my life. I don't care if it is my mother or not.

Time for me to be passive-aggressive and stare at my computer and pretend to work.
It's almost Friday.

 


posted by: ruined (reply)
post date: 12.13.06 (2:31 pm)

Sometimes, to get things in order you even have to cut the closest of relations. My wife did they same with her mother and grandparents. Interestingly enough, when the drama her mother and grandparents brought into her life subsided, our home life improved drastically.

Regardless what happens, here's wishing the best.



posted by: seochris (reply)
post date: 12.13.06 (10:33 pm)

it would change with time

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