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posted by: lorischuster (reply) post date: 09.26.06 (9:01 pm) I hate the guilt thing. I don't respond well to it...I can't respect someone who uses it to manipulate. It's a difficult road with moms and daughters. Sorry you are having difficulty in your relationship with her. It's good you keep trying. Hope she shows up...physically and emotionally. posted by: SupremeAnna (reply) post date: 09.27.06 (5:50 am) I love spinach...why would they ban spinach? What? Was it so snooty they had to kick it out of the salad club? posted by: scubadiva (reply) post date: 09.27.06 (6:02 am) Reply to: SupremeAnna They banned fresh bagged spinach for the time being b/c it was making a lot of people sick - had a resistant strain of Ecoli. They haven't been able to determine the source conclusively... posted by: scubadiva (reply) post date: 09.27.06 (6:03 am) Reply to: LadyG Me too. posted by: scubadiva (reply) post date: 09.27.06 (6:09 am) Reply to: lorischuster We'll have to wait and see. I went to counseling (by myself) about 4 years ago for the express purpose of finding ways to constructively deal with her. Tried many different approaches to try to alter things. Finally realized that there was nothing I could do but damage control and protecting myself. My mantra became "She really means well." Conflict between last possible hope and knowing how unwilling she has been in the past to alter things. (ie, when I say no to something, she keeps on and on asking me over and over. When I say "no", I mean it, and asking me 10 more times will not get a different answer, it only pisses me off. I have made a point of saying "For the third time, NO." If she gets to four, I hang up or leave. But she does it all the time. posted by: rosietulips (reply) post date: 09.27.06 (11:08 am) Sometimes when I'm hungry, I still don't feel like eating -- especially when I'm not craving anything! posted by: scubadiva (reply) post date: 09.28.06 (2:27 am) Reply to: rosietulips I'm now craving chili. Going to make it. (Looking at schedule) Probably won't be able to start fixin' it until Saturday. By then, the craving will prolly be over. So I'll freeze it. posted by: SupremeAnna (reply) post date: 09.28.06 (5:03 am) Reply to: scubadiva Oh, I had no idea. We don't eat much spinach on this side of the world. Thanks for the info :) And wow, that site for dealing with mean operators works? wish we had one for thailand! |
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