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| Warm Tingley-y Feeling |
| 09.19.06 (9:17 am) [edit] |
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I miss my spinach. I miss my boobs. I miss the crappy shopping spree you'd take after winning a puzzle on Wheel of Fortune to get that dumb ceramic Dalmatian. I also miss when W.O.F. didn't 'give' the freebie letters on the final puzzle. I miss having someone call me that gives me that warm tingle-y feeling. Hot Stud called yesterday afternoon. Same conversation that we've been having for months. How he really wants to get together (blah blah blah). I just chuckle to myself at this poing. He gets business call. Says he'll call me back (50-50 on that actually happening). This time he did but I was on the phone with a friend that I hadn't talked to in a while so I let him go to voicemail. His message was the same as all before "I"m heading out of town on Wednesday but we really need to get together..." Yes, I know he has his own business and it keeps him SUPER busy. But I also know that he would make the time for me if he wanted to. (I am pretty sure he's making time for others...) I am just wondering how much longer this charade is going to go on. I don't think he's completely aware of it, but we've morphed into 'friends' status and there's no going back. |
posted by: ruined (reply)
post date: 09.19.06 (9:04 am)
Advice from me (a man) to you (one who I consider a friend)... sounds like this guy is afraid of commitment. He's coming across as unsure what he wants. Big caution flag.
Hope you find that warm-tingly AND some reruns of WOF when it was a cool show. :)
posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 09.19.06 (11:19 am)
How do you respond to his "We should get together"? Do you give the "yeah"? or will you give him an update on your status?
posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 09.19.06 (6:08 pm)
Reply to: LadyG
I'm under no illusions with "Hot Stud". When we first met, he shared with me that he's not typically the monogamous type, but he wasn't aversive to it. Depended on the right girl.
I told him I WAS the monogamous type and I was looking for that sort of situation.
So there's no disillusions on either side. It's not like I wanted to get engaged after our first date. I realized quite a while ago that it wasn't going to progress beyond casual dating or friendship.
Like many of the guys I've dated - he's smart funny and has a lot going for him (In addition to being a hunk). He's just not the guy for me.
posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 09.19.06 (6:09 pm)
Reply to: rosietulips
Nowadays, I reply with "Yeah yeah yeah." I've dated enough to know actions speak louder than words. ;)
posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 09.19.06 (6:13 pm)
Reply to: ruined
I think if either of us were guys that looked like Hot Stud, we might play the field too. LOL
He's been upfront with me from the get-go. I appreciated his candor. (See long reply to LadyG)
We haven't gotten in a commitment-esque situation, so I'm not going to pass judgment on whether he has issues (that's sort of like the pot calling the kettle black). I think with his work schedule, he doesn't have a lot of time to invest (There's always the possibility that he's is unwilling to).
I'm not expecting him to change his colors. After several dates, you kinda get the idea of what a guy is or isn't willing to be a part of.
posted by: FinalyFree (reply)
post date: 09.21.06 (7:26 am)
Sometimes it's just the not knowing, for sure that's so irritating. If he just came right out and said, "hey I'm seeing a couple of other people, but would like to get together with you when we can" it sort of lowers the level of expectation, huh?
posted by: g (reply)
post date: 09.21.06 (12:09 pm)
what happened to your boobs?
posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 09.21.06 (1:13 pm)
Reply to: g
I've lost about 30 pounds and at least 10 were in my boobs. I feel like I need to start shopping in the training bra section again soon.
posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 09.21.06 (1:15 pm)
Reply to: FinalyFree
His honesty is refreshing. Unfortunately, the truth doesn't jive with me.
I never called him back on Monday, he called me again yesterday... which is rather unusual - our phone tag is more Pong-like (back and forth).
posted by: FinalyFree (reply)
post date: 09.21.06 (3:26 pm)
Reply to: scubadiva
I remember when Pong was really cool, heh.
Could it be this guy just isn't sure what he wants? Or maybe he's very attracted to you and a commitment-phobe?
posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 09.22.06 (4:47 am)
Reply to: FinalyFree
Pong is still the only tv video game I've ever played. And that was in the late 70's. Haven't played one since. LOL
I think Hot Stud is sure what he wants. He wants to get laid - nothing wrong with that. I'm not giving him any sort of 'in' in that department.
He knows where I stand on things - I'm a 1 guy + 1 girl kinda girl with no room for others. I won't budge on that issue. If he his actions (instead of his words), indicated he was more open to it, then I would have been into him like white on rice.
This is the guy that would openly talk about dates he had with other girls. Granted, he hasn't mentioned another girl in a couple of months... When he started doing it, it really bothered me. I already 'knew' he was seeing others but I didn't need to hear about it. That's when I 'saw the light with him' and decided to move on. I've made a point of keeping our conversations about his work, his pets, the fish tank, the gym.
There could be the possibility that he's changed his mind with me, but if he had, I think he'd be making more effort to actually SEE me. Last time I saw him was...early May. People can change, sure, but they are more likely than not to regress to old behaviors. I still think he's an utterly amazing guy that will make a lot of girls happy.
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