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| I did it |
| 11.28.05 (2:09 pm) [edit] |
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I've been leaving messages for the Lieutenant for 2 weeks without a response. He called me back this morning while I was in my medical guinea pig appt. So I called him back and left a message saying he could reach me ANYTIME but between 1-2pm. So when did he call? 1:30. I called him back when I got out of my counseling session. He said that "T" has yet to respond to any of the visits they've made. I told him to proceed with the criminal charges. He said that he would forward the file to the District Atty and they'd get back to me about the Grand Jury. So the wheels are in motion. My counselor was there when I spoke to him. She asked me how I felt - I told her - kinda numb. I don't feel like this was a measure that is going to make some prolific difference in my healing, but "T" can't get away with this. His arrogance at ignoring the police further demonstrates his belief that he's above everyone else. Never done anything like this before, so I'm sort of unsure as to the process. I know that although the 'rape victim' (I hate that term) isn't supposed to be put on trial, I am sure that I'll have to deal with a lot of crap since it's my word vs his. |
posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 11.28.05 (11:48 am)
Best of luck to you...
posted by: bacardibreezer (reply)
post date: 11.28.05 (10:25 pm)
I hope he gets what he deserves...and I hope it isn't too hard for you to do this. I was also raped once, but I never told the cops cause I was drinking and I was 19...it wasn't violent or anything, but still. Good luck!
posted by: 14u2nv2 (reply)
post date: 11.29.05 (2:48 am)
Unfortunately, it will be alot to go through. You will have to re-live it in front of an audience (so to speak)..but at as you said..you shouldn't let the guy get away with it either. Just know I'm thinking of you and wishing only the best. Good luck girl!
posted by: chicalookate (reply)
post date: 11.29.05 (3:44 am)
Good luck. Sorry that they are being such idiots about it. Let me know if I need to break out the voodoo doll.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 11.29.05 (4:02 am)
Reply to: chicalookate
Would the voodoo doll be for "T"? or the doofus detective? or...
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 11.29.05 (4:02 am)
Reply to: rosietulips
Thanks. I need all the luck I can get.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 11.29.05 (4:03 am)
Reply to: bacardibreezer
I really didn't want it to get to this point. It wasn't hard for me to give them the go-ahead. He's totally blown off the police - furthering demonstrating that he feels he's above the law.
posted by: rinna (reply)
post date: 11.29.05 (4:04 am)
We're not victims, Scuba, we're survivors. At least that's the spin I put on it - a bit Oprah-ish, but at least it doesn't feel like a pity party when I think about it.
Best of luck and all the strength you can muster for the times ahead. It's rough, but it'll be worth it.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 11.29.05 (4:05 am)
Reply to: 14u2nv2
I don't have a problem with re-telling things. I am not ashamed of what happened and I did nothing wrong, so it's just a matter of taking a deep breath and telling the truth. Because I was drugged, I am not able to give a lot of details of the 8 hours or so. I just have bits and pieces...
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 11.29.05 (4:06 am)
Reply to: rinna
Thanks. I think that considering what I've already been through, it can't be any worse than what I've been thru already. (As you know)
posted by: surrogate (reply)
post date: 11.29.05 (4:25 am)
what a putz... go get him.
posted by: almsthvn (reply)
post date: 11.29.05 (4:34 am)
Good.
Good good good.
Not responding to the police - indicates lack of cooperation. Cool. Let him keep screwing stuff up ;)
posted by: chicalookate (reply)
post date: 11.29.05 (5:10 am)
Take your pick... I am sure I could do a whole group curse... I need to do one on some family members too.
posted by: 14u2nv2 (reply)
post date: 11.29.05 (7:37 am)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
Same thing once happened to me, but I got instant gratification as my best guy friend punched him in the fucking mouth so hard that he fell to the ground and he was barred from the club.
posted by: onebadjen (reply)
post date: 11.29.05 (8:35 am)
i still think we should castrate him with a brick.
posted by: uniquelyours (reply)
post date: 11.29.05 (3:33 pm)
Good luck with it all..
Its gonna be hard i know, been there done that. Guy hasnt been charged..
Rinns' right, we're not victims, we're all survivors...
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 11.30.05 (3:16 am)
Reply to: uniquelyours
I don't even like being identified as a survivor. It's something bad that happened to me but I don't want it to define who I am in any shape, form or fashion.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 11.30.05 (3:16 am)
Reply to: onebadjen
I know you do, but it's not the answer.
posted by: trekguy (reply)
post date: 12.02.05 (10:31 am)
Right on girl!! Steady as she goes, your not in the wrong, we all know it, he is!! He should get what he justly deserves!!
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 12.03.05 (4:46 am)
Reply to: trekguy
Didn't hear from the DA's office this week even after sending her an email - I'll call on MOnday...
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