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| Fizzled |
| 06.10.05 (8:14 pm) [edit] |
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Met "Sven" tonight for a drink. He asked where I wanted to meet - I wasn't familiar with the midway area, so I just said someplace not noisy. He picked Pappadeaux. Place was packed, speakers blaring for people waiting for reservations, couldn't hear much. And he was drunk when I got there. He said he had already drunk 5 strong margaritas. (Not a good sign). Before we met, I told him I couldn't stay long as I was meeting some friends for a birthday gathering. (My exit strategy) He was a little too 'blue collar' for me, didn't stand when I got to the chair, didn't offer to push it in, didn't ask what I wanted to drink - AMD cursing left and right. (I admit I'll use a word occasionally but it was Fuck this, shit that, cunt this...) He mentioned something about being into racing, I asked something about Nascar and his reply was "Its for a bunch of pussy-sucking pussies." (Lovely, I thought!) Then he proceeds to tell me a story about how he bought a couple dinner and they were going over to his place to have some fun (I didn't want to know) and they stole his bag of pot. (I have this thing about drugs.) I'm politely sitting there, drinking my glass of water while he downs his 6th drink. He said that he can't wait to (I'll leave this to your imagination.) I replied that the idea was very flattering, but that wouldn't be happening between us. He looked rather shocked and he said "I thought you came here not to tease." I said "I was VERY upfront about taking things slowly and that this was just a get to know you drink. I won't be involved with people doing drugs. It's your thing, that's cool, but I don't want to be around it." He said "Well, I was just being honest." I told him that I appreciated it, but it was just one of those things I held firm on. (Plus a host of other reasons, but I figured that was my easiest out.) So then he starts talking to a married couple on the other side of him that were in the middle of a appearingly intense discussion. They kept sort of acknowledging whatever he was saying and ignoring him. But he kept on as he drank his 7th margarita. And flirting with the bartenders, etc. Just not my type of guy. If I'm there to meet him, I'm there for HIM. I expect similiar attention. I stood up for over 5 minutes before I finally tapped him on the shoulder, told him it was nice meeting him and that I hoped he had a safe drive home. He put his hand on my posterior and said "Call me." I just turned around and left - promptly sending his numbers into my cellphone dead zone where they will never ring again. Perhaps...it was because he was drinking. But I felt completely disrespected from the get-go. Any man that can get drunk before meeting a woman - doesn't show much decorum. And it went downhill from there. The crass language didn't help. He just didn't seem to show much self-control. I'm glad I didn't shave my legs for him. :P |
posted by: SweetDiva (reply)
post date: 06.10.05 (5:21 pm)
yup ..... he's not the "Diva" type of a man.
heck....I don't know what type of a woman would want that....*smh*
posted by: Beyourself (reply)
post date: 06.10.05 (5:27 pm)
Wow, you sure had a winner on your hands. How could bear to let him go?? You must be torn! Would he not make a wonderful candidate on the "fear Factor"?? ;-)
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.10.05 (5:34 pm)
Reply to: SweetDiva
Guys like him make the others look like princes. :)
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.10.05 (5:34 pm)
Reply to: Beyourself
Perhaps I'll go groveling back to him tomorrow. As long as I don't interrupt his Formula 1 racing game. (I have a feeling people have died for that!)
posted by: billlyryan (reply)
post date: 06.10.05 (5:39 pm)
What a loser.
He sounds like someone a writer would come up with on a sitcom!
I'm sorry Love...
But I'm sure by now, you've bounced back...although with him, I bet it wasn't hard!
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.10.05 (5:45 pm)
Reply to: billlyryan
I went shopping afterwards and got a cute top and a cool framed picture. (Had a merchandise credit to blow)
So the evening was not a total loss.
Good thing he wasn't 'all that' because I was having a not-too-great hair day.
posted by: billlyryan (reply)
post date: 06.10.05 (5:49 pm)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
You're so cute!
But he's still a loser.
posted by: kreativekat (reply)
post date: 06.10.05 (7:15 pm)
yeee, what a loser!! I'm against drugs myself.
I'm pretty nice gal but i think i may have left way before you did.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.11.05 (1:54 am)
Reply to: billlyryan
Yes, the cute top is for the next date...
I'm not going to say he is a loser - I just need someone a little more 'refined' and respectful of a lady.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.11.05 (1:55 am)
Reply to: kreativekat
If someone lights up every once in a while, I don't have a problem with it - but I got the feeling that he was the type that did it most evenings. And with his inability to drink in moderation - just sorta added to the theory.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.11.05 (1:56 am)
Reply to: kreativekat
Actually, I stayed because I was making eye contact with another guy at the bar... until his gf/wife showed up.
(Give me a little credit!)
posted by: Zissy (reply)
post date: 06.11.05 (8:20 am)
what a jerk but I hear this quite often these days.
One will come your way when you least expect it so keep those gams slick. :)
posted by: NurseNancy (reply)
post date: 06.11.05 (2:23 pm)
He's a loser. good riddance.
posted by: islandArtist (reply)
post date: 06.11.05 (5:39 pm)
Holy crap, where do you find these 'gems'??? He should have a tattoo on his forehead saying "leave me alone, for your own good"
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.11.05 (7:38 pm)
Reply to: islandArtist
I'm sure there's a girl out there that is perfect for him. I just picture the "happily ever after" including a double-wide, a Barcolounger and him saying "hon, fetch me another Bud-Lite" while the racing is on.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.11.05 (7:39 pm)
Reply to: NurseNancy
My theory on those is:
they make me appreciate the good ones all the more!
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.11.05 (7:40 pm)
Reply to: Zissy
I have a bikini/leg waxing scheduled for Tuesday. So I hope I don't run into "HIM" on Monday when I'm furry. LMAO
posted by: jennjr (reply)
post date: 06.13.05 (5:46 am)
ooooh, he sounds like a real charmer!
posted by: nullfactor (reply)
post date: 06.13.05 (8:13 am)
Sounds like the bottom of the barrel. Hopefully, things go uphill from there... :)
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.13.05 (11:36 am)
Reply to: jennjr
I can dig his phone number out of my trash can if you'd like it.
posted by: jennjr (reply)
post date: 06.13.05 (11:49 am)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
Hmmm....
Gee whiz, that sounds tempting, but I'm going to have to pass...LOL! :)
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.13.05 (5:14 pm)
Reply to: jennjr
You sure??????????
posted by: jennjr (reply)
post date: 06.14.05 (3:30 am)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
Wwwweeeeeeelllllllllllllllllllllllllll.......... I thought really, really hard about this....yeah, I'm sure. ;)
posted by: wiccachicky (reply)
post date: 06.14.05 (5:15 am)
Ugh - you are striking out with these losers!! Hope a better one comes your way soon.
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