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| Choices, Regrets, and Sex |
| 06.06.04 (3:10 pm) [edit] |
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I was reading a book yesterday that was completely lame, but a sentence on the first page caught my attention and made me think... Here it is: "If we always made the smartest choice, we'd never get laid." I guess if we armchair quarterback every 'lay' we've had, we would probably wish we hadn't had a number of them. So, here are my questions for you: [b]Do we lose some part of our reason and logic and judgment when it comes to getting laid?[/b] *this is a no-brainer for you guys, you don't even need to bother answering it! And... [b]What percentage of your 'lays do you regret? 10%? 25%? 75%? Looking back, what were the bad judgments about? Alcohol? Horniness? Loneliness? Closing hour at the bar? The person was on their medication at the time you met them? [/b] |
posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (12:57 pm)
Hahaha I'd have to say a combo of horniness and alcohol/substances...that's a volatile pairing.
I can't think of much I regret, though...maybe one? I guess for me, my need to satisfy a sexual urge is pretty much something I don't regret. LOL In loose translation, when I'm on the prowl it's all fair/fun game to me (as long as no one is married!).
posted by: lynne (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (1:23 pm)
I would say that I really only regret about 10% of the people I have had sex with. And I regret that I settled for less than I was attracted to in order to fill some emotional need to have someone want me sexually. As if that matters. I mean come on, if you have a vagina, you pretty much can get laid whenever you want to.
posted by: Saint027 (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (1:48 pm)
Being a logic based man, it has prevented me from getting laid more times than I wish to count. (see postage stamp skirt chick post on my blog). Should do it, but I reason myself out of it and ending up taking care things myself. Don't get me wrong, Ive had a lot of sex. Just not with very many people. So for all you who can bypass that logical side and have "regretful sex", I envy you. lol
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (2:51 pm)
Reply to: Saint027
You envy people that have had 'regret' sex? Even if it spurs disease, pregnacy or psychotic episodes? (Not that those are exclusive to regret sex!)
So it's a matter of quantity over quality?
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (2:52 pm)
Reply to: SheSpecies
Good thing there's a lot of distance b/w you and CyberPal - he was on the prowl this weekend. ;)
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (2:53 pm)
Reply to: KRAZEDONE
Note to Kraze:
Pls discard ALL alcoholic beverages in your home in fear that you might end up with your neighbor that wants to sharpen your blades and borrow your hose. ;)
posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (2:57 pm)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
LOL Whuh-oh! ::hides:: I ain't into that no more. LOL
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (3:02 pm)
Reply to: SheSpecies
Ok... I'm sure a lot of hearts on here will now be breaking.. ;)
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (3:03 pm)
Reply to: KRAZEDONE
ever been with someone you went "ewwwww" the morning after?
posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (3:13 pm)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
Hehehe Well, for the most part, that is...LOL
I think most people know. ;-)
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (3:24 pm)
Reply to: SheSpecies
There are some exceptions to the 'no more prowling' policy?
Spill 'em!
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (3:25 pm)
Reply to: KRAZEDONE
I was really hungry for my evening protein bar, until I read your hairy back comment. And it wasn't the hairy back but the thought of your hairy legs that did it to me. LOL
I just love the feeling of freshly shaved or waxed legs...
posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (3:28 pm)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
LOL I didn't mean no prowling so much as I meant fucking guys. ;-)
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (3:29 pm)
Well, regret sex isn't necessarily just sex with guys. Although they seem to make it so much easier to regret... LOL
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (3:44 pm)
Reply to: KRAZEDONE
You snort tea? Earl Gray or Green Tea? or do you snort the Red Zinger?
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (4:00 pm)
Reply to: KRAZEDONE
I thought you were snorting it like coke..
It would leave little tea leaves all over your nose.
posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (4:35 pm)
Reply to: KRAZEDONE
What the fuck's luiza?
Decaf iced tea? You puss! LOL
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (4:35 pm)
Reply to: SheSpecies
I understood her. She meant Luzianne
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (4:36 pm)
Reply to: SheSpecies
You're not fully fluent in Krazed-speak
posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (4:46 pm)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
Oh! Gotcha.
posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (4:48 pm)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
This is true. Is there a dick-shun-airy for that?
posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (4:50 pm)
Reply to: KRAZEDONE
LOL Yeah sure. ;-)
You probably don't need caffeine though, do ya? Krazed seems naturally caffeinated.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (5:00 pm)
Reply to: KRAZEDONE
Pot or caffeine?
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (5:09 pm)
Reply to: SheSpecies
No comment your dirty girl.
posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (5:26 pm)
Reply to: KRAZEDONE
LOL For real??
posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (5:32 pm)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
Yeah yeah...this has been a dirty weekend for this dirty girl.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (5:34 pm)
Reply to: SheSpecies
Oh really? Details please. LMAO
posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (5:50 pm)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
LOL I didn't blog on it but I may as well spit it out.
I had a latenight visitor. ;-) That's part of why I slept in so darned late today. And basically my mind's been in the gutter all day. LOL
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (5:56 pm)
Reply to: SheSpecies
I get bootycalls frequently late night - but none of them are worth revisiting...
I'm happy at least SOMEONE got laid. (Even if it wasn't Kraze or myself.)
posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (6:12 pm)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
Well, no regrets for me. LOL But I all ready said that earlier! ;-)
This relationship is pretty cool. No one gets jealous...neither of us really wants to have to put-out for a relationship, but the sex is pretty amazing and it's on-call via speed-dial. ;-)
Basically good sexual chemistry with no attachments.
posted by: riverrat338 (reply)
post date: 06.06.04 (7:41 pm)
poo on you women..lol there are regrets to sex?
if you never regret any of them then did you make the smartest choice?
posted by: dumblondegirl (reply)
post date: 06.07.04 (2:40 am)
Um let me just say that there hasn't been a huge number of men in and out of my life (married at 19, again at 23). I don't really regret any of them.
posted by: Saint027 (reply)
post date: 06.07.04 (3:45 am)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
WHOAAA! Thats not quite where I was headed with that. I just mean, sometimes, it would be nice to have that met-her-at-a-bar-and-took-her-home sex. I don't seem to be able to do that. Thats all I meant. Serves me right for jumping into this conversation!
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.07.04 (4:28 am)
Reply to: Saint027
certainly didn't sound that way - LOL
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.07.04 (4:39 am)
Reply to: SheSpecies
"Well, no regrets for me. LOL But I all ready said that earlier! ;-)
This relationship is pretty cool. No one gets jealous...neither of us really wants to have to put-out for a relationship, but the sex is pretty amazing and it's on-call via speed-dial. ;-)
Basically good sexual chemistry with no attachments."
You bitch! LOL
posted by: Coldtones (reply)
post date: 06.07.04 (4:45 am)
red wine = liquid pantie remover
posted by: Cyberpal (reply)
post date: 06.07.04 (5:00 am)
Alcohol.... when I've had my beer goggles on in the past..the shock I get the next morning is horrible!!
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.07.04 (5:30 am)
you bad bad boy.
posted by: misskendy (reply)
post date: 06.07.04 (5:37 am)
beer..horniness...beer...horniness...closing time...beer...Did I mention BEER???? LMAO
posted by: misskendy (reply)
post date: 06.07.04 (5:38 am)
Reply to: KRAZEDONE
eeeeeeewwwwwwww!!!!
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.07.04 (5:46 am)
Reply to: misskendy
you are now a t-trollop too!!!
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.07.04 (8:11 am)
Reply to: KRAZEDONE
I'm awake. Have been nursing a bird back to health this a.m. and then talked for a while to the guy that was shot... Did my hour on the treadmill in a plastic sweat suit, showered, and about to head out for my accupuncture appt.
You'll have to manage without me for a while today hon. ;)
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.07.04 (8:20 am)
Reply to: KRAZEDONE
Did he move up?
posted by: BLOU (reply)
post date: 06.07.04 (8:59 am)
You are a crazy girl ... you sure get the tounges wagging and the fingers flying to comment on your posts ..... I would have to say that if you're enjoying yourself, all sense of logic and reason are swept under the bed ... along with your panties .... And regrets .... YIKES ... I would have to say yes, one or two and it was poor judgement thinking that this would help rekindle a long gone, down the road, romance. Why do women always think sex will help?
posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 06.07.04 (9:21 am)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
:-) I think I've been racking up some really good mojo to deserve this one. ::crosses her toes::
Heheh
posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 06.07.04 (9:24 am)
Reply to: Coldtones
LOL I always heard that the panty remover was SoCo (Southern Comfort)...but I grew up in Texas. ;-)~
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.07.04 (10:47 am)
Reply to: SheSpecies
I believe anything that gets a girl's brain lubricated suffficiently with alcohol, is a panty remover.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.07.04 (10:50 am)
Reply to: BLOU
"Why do women always think sex will help? "
And why do men play along? ;)
posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 06.07.04 (6:01 pm)
Yes, I've had episodes that I regret. Loneliness or alcohol we're usually the defining factors. I wish I could just forget them, but alas my brain only forgets the stuff that I need to remember.
posted by: BLOU (reply)
post date: 06.07.04 (6:36 pm)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
Well I guess women associate sex with the giving of love and as for men .... well if you're giving it up ... there taking it!
posted by: misskendy (reply)
post date: 06.07.04 (6:37 pm)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
wooohooo I'm a t-trollop!!!! :D Now let me go find saint.... LMAO
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (5:58 am)
Reply to: misskendy
ok - t-trollop is your title
t-ho is Kraze
t-skank is already taken too
t-slut and t-hussy are still available.
I think I'm t-revirginized.
posted by: juniperflux (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (6:23 am)
0%
I don't believe in regret.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (6:25 am)
Reply to: juniperflux
Clearly, you haven't dated some of the gems I hate - LMAO
posted by: juniperflux (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (6:29 am)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
Oh... I've dated some dooozies. But I just don't get into regret. Our choices, good and bad, make us who we are. And I'm cool with who I am, so... I don't regret. A waste of time if you ask me.
posted by: juniperflux (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (6:36 am)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
Also... just thought I'd point this out, b/c I thought it was funny. Notice how you typed your reply to me as "Clearly, you haven't dated some of the gems I hate - LMAO" I think you meant "have" at the end, but typed hate. Now THAT's a Freudian slip if I've EVER seen one. :)
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (6:39 am)
Reply to: juniperflux
LOL - actually I don't hate any of the guys I've dated. Still cool with all of them. They were just lousy dates/lays/bf's. I wouldn't have been remotely interested in them if they didn't have any redeeming qualities.
posted by: Ironwolf8766 (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (7:07 am)
Wow...67 comments...to answer the question. I've only been with a few women...and I only regret 2.
1st one I regret is believing her when she said she was 17 (I was 19), found out later from her sister she was 14.
2nd one, was just stupidity. Booze was involved.
posted by: Ironwolf8766 (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (7:08 am)
Reply to: SheSpecies
Darn...I guess that leaves me out. LOLOL
posted by: Ironwolf8766 (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (7:10 am)
Reply to: SheSpecies
Double Darn...LOLOLOL
Im in a mood.
posted by: Ironwolf8766 (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (7:14 am)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
See I wont be with a girl that is Drunk, buzzing, but not so drunk she doesnt know what she really is doing.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (8:29 am)
Reply to: Ironwolf8766
"See I wont be with a girl that is Drunk, buzzing, but not so drunk she doesnt know what she really is doing."
Or one that your wife hasn't approved of. LMAO
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (8:30 am)
Reply to: Ironwolf8766
Imagine that...
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (8:32 am)
Reply to: Ironwolf8766
My regrets are usually more related to quality than anything else. Never been with someone underage - I usually end up with someone a few years older than myself. I've dated 2 guys younger - one was 5 years younger and he was clueless.. It took the dude 4 dates to land a smooch. He was kicked to the curb after that...
posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (8:53 am)
Reply to: Ironwolf8766
Yeah, I don't mess with no married folks! ;-)
posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (8:56 am)
Reply to: Ironwolf8766
LOL Sorry to disappoint.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (8:56 am)
I consider it professional courtesy. I wouldn't want a woman to mess with 'my dude' either. I've been on dates with several married men who 'neglected' to mention it until I started having a few questions...
posted by: Ironwolf8766 (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (10:04 am)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
If I was (single) attracted to you both mentally and physically, I would be asking/trying for a smooch on the first date.
If there was no connection after two, then I would put the dating to an end.
posted by: Ironwolf8766 (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (10:06 am)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
Well of course that statment was talking about before I was married.
I keep trying to get permission now that Im married but I keep getting shot down...I wonder why that is (tongue firmly in cheek)
lol
posted by: Ironwolf8766 (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (10:07 am)
Reply to: SheSpecies
Ah well one can always fantasize! (wicked grin)
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (11:47 am)
Reply to: Ironwolf8766
Like I said, he was young... Well-raised Southern girl that I am, I cannot attack a guy until he's at LEAST made some sort of move. ;)
(I went on dates 2-4 just to see how long it would take for him to 'loosen up')
posted by: Ironwolf8766 (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (11:48 am)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
hehehehehe....
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (11:51 am)
Reply to: Ironwolf8766
Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiight. ;)
posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (11:59 am)
Reply to: Ironwolf8766
That's cool. A little fantasy is good for the soul! LOL
posted by: Ironwolf8766 (reply)
post date: 06.08.04 (12:03 pm)
Reply to: SheSpecies
Yes it is, Yes it is.
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