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How long is too long?
04.30.04 (3:48 pm)   [edit]
[b][i]SOMEONE who wishes to remain ANONYMOUS[/i] and I were talking about how an experience he had turned him off of sex for TWO WHOLE WEEKS! Got me thinking...

What's the longest you've gone without sex?
Was it by choice?
What was the reason (other than you couldn't find anyone willing other than your hand)
Did you learn anything from the experience?
Are periods of celibacy ever a good thing?
How long is too long to go without a roll in the hay?[/b]
 


posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 04.30.04 (1:14 pm)

This is my first visit to your blog! I really like it :D Time to bookmark you!

As for the questions...
-can't remember, but it was when I was with an ex
-no
-dunno...just didn't do it :(
-yes, I need someone horny
-no...maybe that's why I have been bitchy
-maybe a week??



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.30.04 (1:16 pm)

Reply to: rosietulips
LOL - thanks - start at the bottom and work your way up to get the dating drama.



posted by: Cyberpal (reply)
post date: 04.30.04 (1:22 pm)

Oh! No you dient!! :x Scuba, you went back on your word!! Arrgh!! :(

**Cyberpal saunters off, shaking his head and muttering TRAITOR!!**



posted by: grrlpink (reply)
post date: 04.30.04 (1:35 pm)

i wrote a blog about this as well a while back because i was in a three year relationship and had only had sex about once or twice in the last year..it sucked. it was hard. at the time i just told myself that wasnt the important thing in the relationship and thats not what mattered, but really we didnt do it because the relationship was shitty and had gone sour. i found out after we broke up that she had cheated on me.. anyway..what i learned is to be less tolerant, not to ignore my instincts, and know when its time to walk away.



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.30.04 (1:37 pm)

Reply to: Cyberpal
Huh???



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.30.04 (1:39 pm)

Reply to: grrlpink
Always trust your instincts - Now if only I would heed my own advice. (I'll be posting on my experience with "the artist" soon - looong painful story where I didn't listen to my head)




posted by: grrlpink (reply)
post date: 04.30.04 (1:41 pm)

Reply to: ScubaDiva

arent all stories about affairs with artists painful to tell....



posted by: princessapril (reply)
post date: 04.30.04 (3:45 pm)

im still a virgin and think that sex is something to be saved for marriage. although after marrage, i dont plan to go w/o sex for more than a day, if that



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.30.04 (4:07 pm)

Reply to: Cyberpal
I "edited" it - I don't see what the big deal was... touchy today, aren't we? Is it "that" time of the month?



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 04.30.04 (4:21 pm)

Reply to: princessapril
That's commendable. Doesn't usually pan out that way - but hold out as long as possible. I waited until I was 18 (well a week before).

I'm 32 and never married - I wouldn't want to wait this long - I would have just married some fool to just get laid! LOL

Every day seems great in theory - but I can promise you that every day might happen in the beginning...

There's an old wives tale that tells you to put a bean in a jar every time you have sex the 1st year of marriage and take one out each time afterwards - you'll never have as much as you did the first year as you do the rest of the marriage. (Granted, it is an old wives tale...)



posted by: epitomeofgirl (reply)
post date: 04.30.04 (4:58 pm)

Thanks for the comment on my blog! I changed the font to red! Haha thank ya <3



posted by: Brayton (reply)
post date: 04.30.04 (9:25 pm)

lol
1. dont know
2. no, never
3. needed partner
4. no, sex is beautiful.
5. if you are horney, and are frustrated, than 5 mins is too long!



posted by: reducto (reply)
post date: 05.01.04 (11:17 pm)

1)28 years (29 in August)
2)Yes
3)My religion
4)How to prioritize
5)Yes
6)However long until you're married.



posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 05.01.04 (11:57 pm)

The only time I've gone long periods was after my children were born. I need sex to exist. It's a fact I've discovered about myself. After my first son was born, C and I only waited 9 days. Woah sally.



posted by: Cyberpal (reply)
post date: 05.02.04 (5:38 am)

Reply to: ScubaDiva
Bleah!! :-P



posted by: Answermeister (reply)
post date: 05.02.04 (10:07 pm)

What the hell turned your friend off sex? Genital mutilation?



posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 05.02.04 (10:09 pm)

Reply to: Answermeister
I think as he put it, his penis suffered some injury in the act. Fake fingernails can hurt... So in a way, it was a genital mutiliation.

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